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What a Saint! February 14, 2026

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Happy Valentine’s Day everyone! Here’s hoping you’re surrounded by love and all things pink and red.  But, shouldn’t the day’s message of love stick around all year? Long after the roses have died, the cards have been tossed or saved, and candy has been eaten, the love behind them should last and linger. That’s how St. Valentine would have wanted it and that’s how he lived. There was a real man named Valentine and maybe it’s time to learn about him and why we even have a Valentine’s Day.

 

 

Valentine, and yes, that was his real name, was a priest who served in third century Rome. During that time, Claudius II was emperor and at some point decided that single men made better soldiers than those who were married. He outlawed marriage for young men in hopes of building a stronger military but Valentine thought the decree was unfair and wanted to help Christians who were being persecuted so he continued to marry young couples. He strongly believed people should get married and secretly performed weddings throughout Rome. When Claudius found out about this, he sentenced Valentine to prison.

 

 

While imprisoned, Valentine was relentlessly asked to renounce his actions and his faith but he refused. Sent to another prison, Valentine is said to have written little messages to family and friends to let them know he was well and that he loved them. He would also pray with and befriended a guard whose daughter was blind and had asked Valentine to heal her sight. It is said that just days before his execution, Valentine prayed over the girl, touched her eyes, and she regained her eyesight. Word travelled fast, and upon hearing about this, many turned to Christianity. Claudius was not amused or impressed and quickly condemned Valentine to death. The night before his execution, Valentine wrote to the young girl and signed it, “From your Valentine.” The phrase became popular and today is still used on cards everywhere.

 

Stoned and beheaded on February 14, 269, St. Valentine was initially buried in Rome but in the 19th century, an Irish priest, Father John Spratt, obtained some of St. Valentine’s remains and the relics were brought to Dublin, Ireland, in 1836. Today, parts of St. Valentine’s remains are housed in the Whitefriar Street Church in Dublin. The church features a shrine that includes a casket containing his bones and a vial of his blood. Various churches across Europe also claim to possess relics of St. Valentine, including locations in Dublin, Rome, Glasgow, Prague, and Madrid. Each site has its own story regarding the saint’s remains.

 

 

All that proves just how popular Valentine was and to this day, not only is Valentine’s Day a holiday in the U.S., it’s celebrated worldwide. In Japan, chocolate is more beloved than even stateside while in Denmark, flowers are also given to loved ones on the holiday. In both Italy and Germany it’s strictly an adult and “lovers only” holiday while Mexico officially calls it a Day of Love and Friendship. St. Valentine is considered the Patron Saint of Spring in Slovenia but perhaps the holiday is celebrated biggest in France.

 

 

 

We all know that Paris is known as the “City of Love” and that couples used to attach locks on the Pont des Arts Bridge and throw keys into the River Seine on Valentine’s Day, but the practice was halted due to the weight of the locks and their potential damage to the historic bridge.  The French village of St. Valentin is decked in flowers on Valentine’s Day and is a popular destination for weddings, vow renewals, and engagements. How lovely would that be?!

 

 

St. Valentine is the Patron Saint of love, young people, and happy marriages, which makes me happy being that I was married a day later on February 15 and tomorrow we will celebrate our 40th anniversary!  Considering the fact that Valentine saw to it that couples were united in marriage, it’s quite fitting that the holiday of love is named after him. Valentine’s favorite words were “Love one another as I have loved you” and I’m thinking they’re pretty good words for all of us to live by. Have a LOVEly day!

 

Take the Plunge January 13, 2026

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I recently went to my amazing aesthetician Tara for my regular facial and while sitting in her chair receiving the power and relaxation of her “hands from an angel,” she asked me about my recent Polar Plunge on New Years Day. We talked a little about it and come to find out it’s all very healing and one half of what’s called “Contrast Therapy.” I’ve always believed doing the annual plunge refreshes me and starts my year off fresh but I loved hearing that it’s not just all in my head and something fun to do.

 

 

 

I kinda experienced this last summer when I visited a spa in Albuquerque and fell in love with its adjacent hot tub and cold plunge. So immersed was I in my immersions that until just now I didn’t realize the window above the pools resembles a Zuni turquoise piece. How cool is that?! During my visit, I literally went back and forth…throwing in a wet or dry sauna here and there…and loved every minute of it. I’m still thinking about it.

 

Now I learn that it was all so very good not just for my mind and my heart, but my body.

 

 

 

The Alo Wellness Club and Alo Moves reports that the healing power of Contrast Therapy has been ceremonially practiced for many years and in many civilizations, from Native American sweat lodges to Greco-Roman public baths to Japanese onsens. In short, both hot and cold therapy have been touted for centuries as beneficial wellness practices for both the body and the mind but now we’re learning that combining them makes a powerful and healing recovery pair.

 

So, you’ve likely heard of cold plunging (think athletes) and a hot sauna (think spa days), but what exactly is Contrast Therapy? In a nutshell, it’s the practice of alternating between hot and cold immersion; i.e. water. Doing so has a plethora of physical and mental benefits.

 

 

How does it work? Without boring you to death with scientific and organic data, the heat part of Contrast Therapy increases circulation and relaxes your muscles while the cold portion constricts blood vessels to decrease inflammation. Together, they work in tandem to bring your body back in balance, especially after a workout or when you’re experiencing bouts of aches and soreness.

 

What are those benefits? Let’s look at them…

 

 

Reduces pain and muscle soreness.

Contrast Therapy you had me at hello with this. A 2013 study of Contrast Therapy found significantly greater improvements in muscle soreness recovery. This leads us to…

 

Improves post-workout recovery and performance

Another study found that Contrast Therapy resulted in an enhanced rate and magnitude of recovery compared to passive recovery alone. This leads us to…

 

Promotes injury recovery

We’ve all had them and we see them regularly in sports we watch, but the good news is that a study looking at those with ankle strain (I’m looking at you pickle ballers!) showed that Contrast Therapy, compared to heat alone, reduced swelling faster.

 

And now for the mental benefits.

 

 

Boosts heart health

Alternating between vasodilation (blood vessels expanding) in a hot sauna and vasoconstriction (blood vessels narrowing) in a cold plunge increases your circulation. Better circulation helps regulate blood pressure, increase vascular health, and deliver oxygen-rich blood and nutrients throughout your body.

 

Reduces stress by releasing feel-good hormones

Cold water immersion releases neurotransmitters like dopamine and serotonin, which contribute to feelings of happiness and pleasure. My Polar Plunge is making more and more sense!  Even a single cold-water plunge found a significant improvement in mood and reduction in tension, anger, depression, fatigue, and confusion. Follow it up with a hot jacuzzi and say “aaahhhh!” and read on…

 

Improves sleep quality

Think about it, relaxed muscles, lower stress levels, and less inflammation make you more comfortable, which makes you better primed for a good night’s rest.

 

Okay, so this is all well and good if you’re at a spa or have both a pool and hot tub at your house, but what if you aren’t or don’t? No worries! You can mimic it all with what you’ve got. One example would be to take a hot shower followed by a cold bath or rinse off in the shower with cold water. Easy peasy! Take the plunge and jump right in!

 

 

On a sidenote, I love this tradition and feel it fits today’s theme perfectly.

Courtesy: Native American Heritage

 

As Luck Would Have It, These Blooms Bring It January 10, 2026

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For much of the country, planting flowers is the furthest thing from people’s minds, and even in warmer climates many still aren’t thinking of plants and planting but with the start of a new year, it’s not a bad idea as some blooms are considered lucky and who isn’t looking for a little good luck this and every year?

 

 

In fact and according to House Beautiful, across history and around the world, some flowers have carried meanings that go far beyond their beauty. Certain blooms are thought to invite good fortune into your yard and perhaps the best part is that many of these varieties are surprisingly low maintenance. Being the furthest thing from a green thumb, this makes me happy as the flowers are easily adaptable to many climates and easy to grow, making them good choices for both novice gardeners like myself to certified green thumbs.

 

 

So, what are they? Here’s the list and why they may just be what your space and new year need.

 

Marigold (Tagetes)

These bright, golden blooms symbolize wealth and optimism and are believed to ward off negative energy and bring luck to your household.

 

Jasmine (Jasminum)

A fragrant flower associated with love, prosperity, and spiritual peace, jasmine is a favorite among gardeners for its beauty and durability.

 

Chrysanthemum (Chrysanthemum spp)

Known as a symbol of longevity and wealth, chrysanthemums are popular in many cultures, especially Asia, for attracting good fortune.

 

Orchid (Orchidaceae)

Orchids represent fertility, abundance, and luxury. I find them a bit boring and hard to maintain, but might rethink them as it is said that adding them to your garden or home invites beauty and elegance.

 

Peony (Paeonia)

Popular with so many people but not one of my faves, peonies are associated with romance, prosperity, and honor. They are especially auspicious in feng shui practices.

 

Sunflower (Helianthus)

I remember seeing fields of these in Spain and they always creeped me out because they’re like faces watching you as they follow the sun. But, due to their sunny dispositions, they symbolize happiness, vitality, and abundance making them the perfect choice for amping up the energy level in your garden.

 

Lotus (Nelumbo nucifera)

The white lotus conjures up images of the TV show, but this flower is sacred in many cultures as a symbol of purity, enlightenment, and prosperity.

 

Lavender (Lavandula)

One of my personal favorites, this simple purple bloom is known for its calming scent and is said to symbolize luck and prosperity. As an extra bonus, lavender also attracts beneficial pollinators to your garden.

 

Hibiscus (Hibiscus rosa-sinensis)

These bold and vibrant flowers are associated with wealth and fame and bring a tropical flair to gardens and good vibes to homes.

 

Zinnia (Zinnia spp)

My dad’s favorite, zinnias were prized possessions of the Victorians as they symbolize lasting affection and friendship. Their vibrant colors are also believed to attract good energy and prosperity.

 

 

Whatever you choose, plant with faith and maybe also consider the flower of your birth month.

 

 

So, there you have it, blooms that bring bunches of blessings to your garden and home. And even if they don’t, think about how pretty they are and just go with that. Happy planting and Happy New Year!

 

 

 

 

 

Star Struck January 4, 2026

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Webster defines “epiphany” as an illuminating discovery, realization, or disclosure. It’s a manisfestation or sudden insight. You know, “I was driving to work and had an epiphany that I need to take next week off.”

 

 

Tricia Robinson

In Christianity, today is the Feast of the Epiphany, which celebrates the visit of the Magi, or the Three Kings, to the infant Jesus. It is customary to have your home blessed today and in some cultures, to jump into freezing cold water. (Does my New Year’s Day Polar Bear Plunge count?!) It’s also the twelfth day of Christmas…you know…twelve drummers drumming.

 

But first, why Magi, Kings, and Wise Men?

 

 

We’re all familiar with them in depictions of the nativity and whether you call them kings, wise men, or magi, they are commonly known as foreigners who visit the infant Jesus on the night of his birth accompanied by shepherds and angels and bring Him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh…more of those in a minute.

 

The wise men appear only in the Gospel of Matthew where they are described with the Greek word magoi, which in addition to “wise men” implies astrologers. Little is known about them except that they came from the East and were Gentiles coming to pay homage to the new King of the Jews.

 

There is no mention in Matthew’s account that the Wise Men were kings nor came on camels. The idea of three kings and the presence of camels is linked with two Old Testament prophecies. The gifts they brought had diplomatic significance and suggest that the Magi were indeed kings.

 

 

Gold, frankincense, and myrrh were presented to Jesus by the Magiand each carries deep symbolic meaning. Gold represents kingship and is a precious metal associated with honor and wealth. It signifies Jesus’ royal status as the King of the Jews. Frankincense, a fragrant incense used in worship, symbolizes Jesus’ divinity and priestly role and it was commonly burned in temples as an offering to God. Finally myrrh, a valuable spice used for anointing and embalming, foreshadowed Jesus’ suffering and death and signifies his humanity and the sacrifice he would make.

 

So there’s that…

 

 

Whatever you call them, the three followed a star to find the Christ child, which begs the question “what star have you chosen to follow in your life?”

 

Tough one, right?

 

The world tells us to follow the money and strive for success and power. Buy the biggest house. Wear the loudest labels. Travel, travel, travel. As Pope Francis once spoke about, we also often follow the wrong “stars,” saying “Some stars may be bright, but do not point the way.”

 

Hello Hollywood.

Hello sports.

Hello music.

Hello politics.

 

Think about it, the Three Kings were just that, kings, but they knew there was a king of all kings born and they actually brought Him gifts. As I’ve written many times, I’ve always used this idea, that Jesus got three gifts, as reason why our daughter to this day only gets three gifts each Christmas. But for the rest of the year, what gifts am I striving for and what gifts am I giving to others? What stars am I following?

 

Start following the right stars.

 

Follow the stars of kindness, gentleness, generous, truthworthy, gratitude, humility, and …….

 

 

Throughout history humanity has used stars as navigational tools and throughout the Bible stars are abundantly mentioned. God created the stars in the Book of Genesis, stars were used to describe how many descendants Abraham would have, stars represent angels in the Book of Revelation, and as mentioned above the Star of Bethlehem led the Three Kings to the Christ Child at Christmas, just to name a few references.

 

It’s all pretty powerful when you think about it. God created all those stars and yet still longs for us to shine His light here on Earth. How can we shine like little stars and share the light so we can make a difference in the world; a world that is starving for true light right now? Sometimes it doesn’t take much.

 

Amazingly Jesus’ Earthly ministry was really only about three years long and yet He accomplished more than anyone else ever has. You could say He was the first “one name” celebrity…waaaaay before the likes of Cleopatra, Cher, Elvis, and even Shakespeare. He’s also the most famous person in history according to a recent survey that ranked the names of famous individuals using a specially developed algorithm that scoured the Internet. Jesus topped the list. Amen!

 

 

Perhaps what’s most impressive is that Jesus could care less about becoming famous, an almost foreign concept in today’s fame obsessed society. We seem to all either want to be famous or are fascinated by those who are. Jesus, on the other hand, never sought fame and fame was never His goal. Much like today’s paparazzi and mobs of fans, crowds gathered wherever Jesus went and whenever He spoke and yet when they tried to make Him a king, he retreated and walked away. Can you imagine anyone doing that today? No way, no how.

 

 

The 3 Wise Men were indeed very wise. As they watched the night sky they evoked the importance of alertness and once they saw the star, they got moving despite the long and treacherous length of the journey. They brought gifts and humility with them. The Magi teach us to watch and to move, to be generous and humble and most of all to believe.

 

So maybe that should be our goal. Shine but keep looking up and seeking encounters. Shine like stars but spread light in the world. Ask yourself what stars you follow and what presents you give. Lead the way. Shine bright.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Right Ingredients December 31, 2025

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Tomorrow starts a brand new year that, if you allow it, brings with it a tasty new beginning.  The slate is clean and the page is blank, so make it your own and make it delicious.  All that’s needed is the right attitude and the right ingredients.

 

Recipe For a New Year

Take 12 months and clean them thoroughly of all bitterness, resentment, hate, and jealousy.

Cut into weeks and days and into each mix well with faith, patience, courage, gratitude, and compassion.

Blend with kindness, hope, honesty, prayer, generosity, and prayer.

Sprinkle all with a dash of fun, humor, and joy.

Serve with unselfishness and a cheerful spirit.

 

 

We all know the real recipe for New Year’s Day celebrations in the U.S. is a big pot of black-eyed peas, which represent luck.  Many add pork, to signify prosperity, and make what’s called “Hoppin John,” a brothy dish of peas, pork, and rice. Said to have originated in the 1800s in the Low Country of South Carolina or, take your pick on historians, ancient roots in West Africa. Either way, the ingredients are what count as each one has specific meanings. Black-eyed peas represent coins, collard greens symbolize paper money, pork is said to bring advancement, and the accompanying corn bread symbolizes gold. It’s all about luck and it’s said that the more you eat, the more good fortune will come your way.

 

 

As for around the world, the new year is celebrated and commemorated in these unique ways:

 

At midnight in Spain and some parts of Latin America, revelers pop 12 grapes, one at each stroke of the clock, to symbolize success for each month of the coming year.

 

The Japanese eat buckwheat soba noodles, which are associated with a long life. They also welcome the first sunrise of the new year with “hatsuhinode.”

 

Pomegranates represent fertility and are popular in Turkey and other Mediterranean countries.

 

Leafy greens signify money, so Danes eat stewed kale sprinkled with cinnamon.

 

Here are some other fun and interesting new year good luck traditions:

 

 

However you do it, do it safely and have fun!

 

 

Planning Ahead December 30, 2025

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Tis the season and that time of year…time for a new calendar or planner. Miss Hyper Planner here loves getting out my new calendar, filling in events and dates, settling into my chair, and settling into a new year. It’s right up there with my annual “Polar Plunge” in that it starts me off fresh and refreshed and ready to take on anything!

 

Most of us have a lot on our plates including both professional and personal demands. Using a planner has many benefits that go way beyond simply remembering appointments. You can actually reduce your stress and even improve your health by putting one to daily use as it goes hand-in-hand in that by writing things down you don’t have to remember about them or worry about forgetting to do them, which reduces your stress, which is good for your health. Bingo!

 

 

 

Getting better organized is never a bad thing and neither is scheduling our tasks and our time more effectively and efficiently. Using a planner to jot down to do lists, meetings, trips, appointments, deadlines, birthdays and the likes is efficient and can also free up your schedule, leaving room for more fun and creative endeavors including self-care, exercise, the great outdoors, and maybe even a new hobby. They’re also great little keepers of the past like when you need to reference when you last went to a doctor, when you took that vacation, or when your dog needs her shots.

 

 

 

I’m guessing that most people think of planners in a professional workplace or school setting but productivity is just as important at the home as it is at the office or classroom. Household chores and tasks like weekly cleaning, grocery shopping, kids’ schedules, meal planning, and even DIY projects should all have their place in a planner.

 

 

 

One of my favorite influencers, Tania Stephens, wrote about this recently, saying “there’s something just wonderful about cracking open a brand-new planner.” Amen Tania! I totally agree with her in that the first page or month feels like a clean slate full of hope and obtainable goals. I’m ready 2026!

 

 

Back in the day I was a huge Franklin Planner girl. I loved the many pages one contained as well as all the options it offered for dates, budget, goals, and everything else under the planning sun. Once I left the workplace though, I Ieft behind a detailed planner. I became a page-a-month calendar girl and have liked it for many, many years.

 

For years I ordered the one from M.D. Anderson Cancer Center in Houston, as each month’s artwork was provided by young cancer patients and I loved supporting the cause. Last year they stopped making them though, which broke my heart and forced me to venture elsewhere to find a similar make and model. Blasted phones and their calendars. They’re why M.D. Anderson probably stopped making them!

 

 

I’ve never felt comfortable with just my phone calendar. I know many people, maybe even you, swear by them but similar to books, there’s just something about a physical calendar in my hands that makes me smile. I do use my phone though in that I take a photo of my physical calendar pages and have a “Calendar” photo album on my phone. I know it sounds crazy but it works for me. Others say they use digital calendars for appointments and paper ones for daily planning. I did find a calendar I liked for 2025 but after reading Tania’s blog and looking at her samples, I started thinking about using a true planner again albeit a way less detailed one then my former Franklin Planner.

 

New year new planner? That’s the plan!

 

 

There are planners for everyone and everyone’s needs and tastes out there and it was actually a bit stressful considering the different options as I sat at my computer looking at all the choices and options. At one point I was tempted to venture into an Office Depot but being that it was pre-Christmas shopping at its highest time, retailing stressed me out even more.

 

 

Some planners are simple others are detailed. Some are formal some are whimsical. You may even have your favorite. Share, share, share!  In the meantime, here are just a few of the varieties:

 

  • Structured planners for goal setters
  • Flexible planners you add dates to and can start anytime
  • Fun and motivating planners filled with quotes and tips
  • Faith-filled and faith-based planners that include scripture and prayers
  • Planners for those who love details
  • Planners of all sizes and styles

 

 

Once you settle on a format you like, then you need to decide how you want that planner configured. The first thing I looked at were planners that had both monthly/daily and weekly pages. I want one big page for each month that I can include consistent commitments on. From there I’d like a daily page that I can write down things that pop up, appointments, and reminders. I’m a big “write it down” girl so these pages could prove invaluable to me. I’ll be making those lists and checking them at least twice.

 

From there you can personalize your planner if you choose with stickers, pages to doodle on, colorful pens, or whatever you like.

 

 

Size also matters. I prefer 8.5 x 11” as it allows plenty of room for jotting things down and adding things in but it’s also compact enough to fit in a purse or carry-on and fits perfectly on my desk. All the other added extras like stickers, budgeting pages, habit trackers, and stickers mean nothing to me, although I do like a “Today” type book marker so I can open up right to today or this month.

 

All in all, using a planner can ultimately give you a sense of accomplishment as you look back at the things you got done. Crossing items off our ever present and ever-growing to-do lists is a great feeling and a great way of staying motivated.

 

 

As Tania reminds us, the perfect planner won’t make your life perfect but it may perfectly fit your lifestyle and allow things to feel centered and doable. It could also help you take the guesswork out of your organizational ambitions and get you started on a path to planning, organizing, and keeping everything running smoothly.

 

If you liked what you used last year, don’t change a thing but if you’re looking for a different route or method there are plenty of choices out there. Take your pick and then take a pen and starting entering loves and life.

 

 

 

Blown Away December 20, 2025

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While putting Christmas ornaments on our tree recently, I came across a little bag of ornaments I brought home from my mom’s earlier this year after her passing. My niece rightly took home my mom’s childhood ornament that is so special to all of us, but the ones I brought home are special nonetheless.

 

 

 

One of them is this old-fashioned blown-glass ornament, the kind that I remember filling up our tree when I was growing up along with tinsel and old-school tree topper. The hallowed-out ornament is pretty special to me and will forever have a special place on our tree.

 

About the time I’m decorating our tree, I read that handblown glass ornaments like my mom’s were first made in Germany around 1850 and that it was none other than F.W. Woolworth who brought them stateside. This made me nostalgic all over again as the Woolworth’s in Santa Fe holds a special place in my heart.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sitting front and center on Santa Fe’s famous Plaza, Woolworth’s was somewhere I frequented. Whether it was to go shopping with my mom or eat there during lunch breaks from my nearby ninth grade school, you could say Woolworth’s has been a part of my life since day one. It’s where I ate my first and still favorite Frito Pie, served in the bag of Frito’s, and where I sat the soda fountain and met up with friends. Little did I know that all that time blown glass Christmas ornaments were popular items sold.

 

Fast forward 20 years or so and I found myself at yet another “Five and Dime,” this time it being Vidler’s in East Aurora, NY. Quite the jump from Woolworth’s in Santa Fe, but that was the case after marrying a man from East Aurora.

 

 

Just south of Buffalo, East Aurora is the quintessential Hallmark movie town. Locals call it “the village” and a Hallmark movie was recently filmed there and is airing currently on the channel. Vidler’s plays a central role in the film and is one of my favorite places to browse around when we go there. It’s been around since 1930, is currently run by third generation Vidlers, and is considered the world’s largest 5 & 10. Inside its two levels occupying four connected 19th century buildings right on red-brick Main Street, you’ll find everything from nostalgic candy and toys, kitchen gadgets and home goods, arts and crafts, jewelry, clothing, and seasonal décor as well as an old-fashioned candy counter and popcorn machine. It’s truly a blast from the past.

 

This kind of trip back in time is what Woolworth’s was all about. Conceived by Frank Woolworth and formally incorporated in 1905 as the “F.W. Woolworth & Company,” his concept consisted of a fixed and low-price store that would compete with the then U.S. retailers, which consisted mostly of large and expensive department stores, specialty stores, and general stores. It was a hit and his business model was copied by others in almost every large city and small town across America. When Woolworth’s corporate office building in New York was completed in 1913, it was the world’s tallest and today is still one of the 50 tallest in the U.S.

 

Between the early 1900s and 1960s, Woolworth’s was one of the largest corporations in the world with more than 2,000 U.S. stores and 4,000 worldwide. Woolworth’s closed for good in 1997, the victim of changing times, competition, inflation, and consumer habits but not before Frank Woolworth took a risk that paid off big.

 

 

In 1880 he reluctantly agreed to buy a box of fragile glass baubles meant to hang on Christmas trees after haggling with a German traveling salesman who entered his store in Lancaster, PA. Woolworth wasn’t sold on their allure, but agreed to buy them with the stipulation that he could return any unsold ones. Shoppers loved them and they sold out in mere hours. What began as a small gamble would reshape Christmas traditions worldwide.

 

Historically, the first decorated trees were adorned with apples, candy canes, and pastries. Glass ornaments were first made in Lauscha, Germany by Hans Greiner. Other glassblowers recognized the growing popularity of ornaments and began producing various designs. Soon all of Germany was buying Christmas glassware from Lauscha. Then, on Christmas Eve in 1832 a young girl named Victoria wrote about having a tree hung with lights and ornaments. A picture of her tree was shown in a London newspaper decorated with glass ornaments from her husband Prince Albert’s native Germany and soon Lauscha was exporting its products throughout Europe.

 

 

Woolworth eventually traveled to Lauscha and ordered sets of ornaments to sell in his stores. By doing so, he gave inexpensive access to what were previously expensive and hard-to-get ornaments for most people. By the 20th century, Woolworth’s had imported 200,000 ornaments and topped $25 million in sales from Christmas decorations alone.

 

 

After WWII, the East German government turned most of Lauscha’s glassworks into state-owned entities and production in Lauscha ceased. After the Berlin Wall came down, most of the companies were reestablished and today there are still about 20 small glass-blowing firms in Lauscha. Many silver companies also got on board, including Gorham, Wallace, Towle, Lunt, and Reed & Barton and began manufacturing silver Christmas ornaments. I have a silver ball that was my mother-in-law’s and it’s super heavy!

 

In a world that’s addicted to screens and showing wealth, it’s nice to know stores like Vidler’s and other general stores and five and dimes still exist as we all need a bit of nostalgia and simplicity every now and then. Especially perhaps during the holidays.

 

Lessons From a Blockhead December 9, 2025

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Sixty years ago this year a classic was born when “A Charlie Brown Christmas” was first seen on American televisions. No one knew at the time that it would become a classic but generations have grown to love the simple story of a simple boy wanting to bring simplicity back into Christmas. Yep, that’s really what the legend is all about. Sure, it includes Snoopy’s silly dancing, fun piano riffs, a Christmas pageant, and what is undoubtedly one of the holiday’s most enduring symbols: the infamous Charlie Brown Christmas tree; but ultimately the script reminds us what the real gift of Christmas is.

 

 

In the tale, Charlie Brown is bummed because all his buddies…Lucy, Sally, even Snoopy…seem more concerned with presents and money than the reason for the season. Commercialism has run amok and it’s taken the Christmas spirit out of one Mr. Brown. When Lucy suggests he direct the Christmas play, Charlie Brown agrees and all seems to be going well until it’s time for him and Linus to pick out a tree. There’s peer pressure from the cast to choose a shiny aluminum one, but Charlie Brown chooses a small, sickly tree that he innocently believes only needs some tender loving care, saying “This little green one here seems to need a home.” Others laugh at it and at him, but the laughter stops when Linus gives a speech of all speeches in which he quotes Luke 2:8-14.

 

 

“For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, which is Christ the Lord. And this shall be a sign unto you; Ye shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger. And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God and saying, Glory to God in the highest and on earth peace, good will toward men.” Then Linus turns to his pal and says, “That’s what Christmas is all about Charlie Brown.”

 

End scene. Amen. Hallelujah.

 

“A Charlie Brown Christmas” premiered on CBS on December 9, 1965 and was viewed in and estimated 15,490,000 homes; nearly half of all those watching television that evening.

 

 

Shulz’s goal for the special was to focus on the true meaning of Christmas.  Many at the time even back then thought its quoting of the bible should maybe be rethought. Some even went so far as to ask  Schulz to omit any and all scripture. Schulz refused to do so. I can’t help but wonder if that happened today would today’s television producers and writers fall in line with Schulz.

 

 

In the end, the sound of sweet-voiced children singing “Christmastime is here” perfectly wrapped up the Christmas tale but it took Charlie Brown, Linus, and a droopy tree to remind everyone that unlike a shimmering aluminum tree, Christmas is not about tinsel and glitter. It’s about a King born in a barn in front of animals. You don’t get any more simple than that. Jesus could have been born anywhere, but He chose to be born in front of the lowly. If there was a tree in the manger, I’m guessing it was more like Charlie Brown’s than any color-coordinated or perfectly adorned tree.

 

 

Symbols of Christmas and Why Do We Give Gifts? December 7, 2025

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In many Western Christian churches, including most Catholic and Lutheran parishes, today marks the Second Sunday of Advent. Growing up, we didn’t really “celebrate” Advent but I’ve grown to embrace it. Expectation and anticipation come into play as we focus on hope, faith, joy, and peace…the four candles of an Advent wreath.

 

The word “advent” comes from the Latin word “adventus,” which means “coming.” During Advent, Christians patiently await the coming of their Savior, Jesus Christ. It generally begins on the fourth Sunday before Christmas, ends on Christmas Eve, and ranges in length from 22 to 29 days. Christians around the world have different ways of celebrating Advent. Some light candles, some sing, some eat candy, some give gifts, and some hang wreaths. As I mentioned above, one of the most popular Advent symbols is the Advent wreath.

 

 

Origins of the Advent Wreath are found in the folk practices of the pre-Christian Germanic people who gathered wreaths of evergreen and lighted fires as signs of hope in the cold and dark winter months in Eastern Europe. From Germany, the use of the Advent wreath spread across the Christian world.

 

 

 

Christians later kept the popular tradition alive and by the 16th century Catholics and Prostestants throughout Germany used the symbol to celebrate Advent. Legend has it that the four candles and the four weeks represent 1,000 years and together total the 4,000 years between Adam and Eve and Jesus’ birth. Three candles on the wreath are purple and one is pink. They signify Christ being the light of the world and the contrast between darkness and light.

 

 

Today, wreaths are made up of various evergreens shaped in a circle that represents continuous life, as well as four candles that symbolize the four weeks of Advent. On the first Sunday of Advent, a purple “Prophet’s Candle” is lit as we focus on Hope and Jesus’ coming. The second Sunday of Advent’s “Bethelehem Candle” purple candle symbolizes faith and is followed by the third Sunday’s pink “Shepherd’s Candle” reminding us of Joy and the birth of Jesus. On the last Sunday of Advent, the “Angel’s Candle” of Peace is lit. Some Advent wreaths also add a fifth white “Christ Candle” is the middle, which is lit on Christmas.

 

 

 

Then there’s the beloved manger scene: a simple stable complete with animals, a mom, a dad, and a baby like no other. What always reigns me in is the fact that the King of kings chose not to be born in a castle or palace, but in what was in essence a barn. This, along with the poor shepherds surrounding Him, can serve as reminders of the poor among us, as Father Larry reminded us of in today’s mass.

 

 

 

Yesterday Catholics celebrated the Feast of St. Nicholas. Considered the “first Santa,” good ole St. Nick wore a red coat like Santa, had a beard, and loved to share and give. He’s also mentioned in the classic “The Night Before Christmas.” Who knew?!

 

A very rich and generous man, St. Nicholas heard about a family that didn’t have enough money to buy food so he snuck onto their roof and threw some gold coins down their chimney. The coins landed in their stockings, which were hanging over the fire to dry. This, my friends, is why we hang stockings on fireplaces and put treats in them!

 

 

Candy canes are also sometimes found on mantels and something about them just makes me smile. I particularly love their red-and-white striped pattern as I love stripes, I love patterns, and I love me some red and white! I remember my mom hanging them on our Christmas tree and although I don’t follow her in that practice, I do have a festive vase of them sitting on my kitchen counter every Christmas. Candy canes are fun and festive and they also have an interesting story behind them.

 

 

 

Did you know the flavor of peppermint is similar to hyssop, which is a member of the mint family and was used in biblical times for purification? The shape of the candy cane also has religious undertones as on that first Christmas morn, who were among the first to visit and meet Baby Jesus? That would be shepherds and as they paid homage to the newborn Savior, they carried with them their crooks, which they used in the field to round up sheep. It’s no coincidence that candy canes resemble those curved, reminders and that like the shepherds, Jesus protects us like His little lambs.

 

The red and white colors of a candy cane are said to represent purity and love. And finally, what do you get when you turn a candy cane upside down? The letter J. Whose name starts with J? Jesus!

 

Funny thing though, I really don’t love to eat candy canes. I just like to look at them. Maybe I should rethink this, as peppermint like the kind found in candy canes, actually has some major health benefits.

 

 

And last but certainly not least, why do we give presents? Well, think of the 3 Kings. They brought gifts to the infant King and by giving to others, we model their generous act. Our daughter Kristen only gets three presents at Christmas, which has been our family tradition all her life. If three gifts were good enough for Jesus, they are certainly good enough for the rest of us!

 

 

 

All of these things explain some age-old traditions and also demonstrate the true meaning of Christmas. It breaks my heart to see the real reason for the season become increasingly secular, “offensive,” and commercial but my hope is that by sitting back and understanding exactly why we have days off in December and why stores love this time of the year, we will realize that there is so much more to it all than just time off, shopping, and Santa. I have hope.

 

A Berry Good Thanksgiving Tradition November 19, 2025

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I’ll be spending Thanksgiving this year again with my husband’s side of the family, which has become an annual tradition I’ve grown to love. Another tradition I’ve grown to love is the serving of cranberry sauce alongside the turkey, dressing, potatoes, green beans, pies, and the likes. In fact, it’s something I volunteer to bring each year. I was never a big fan of cranberries back in the “open a can and pour out the log” days, but I’ve grown to love them with each new recipe I’ve discovered as well as my tried and true one. What about you? Yay or nay on cranberry sides? And what exactly are those little red berries that we generally only eat once a year?

 

The small, red, and tart fruit is actually very healthy and we can thank Native Americans for them, as they mixed cranberries with deer meat waaaay back in the day. They may have even shared some with the Pilgrims on that first Thanksgiving Day.

 

History also notes sailors used cranberries as a source of Vitamin C to prevent scurvy, and more recent studies suggest cranberries promote gastrointestinal and oral health, raise the good HDL cholesterol, and may even help prevent cancer.

 

 

The very first official harvesting of cranberries was by Revolutionary War veteran Henry Hall, who planted the first commercial beds in Dennis, Massachusetts in 1816. Many of today’s cranberry bogs are in fact more than 100 years old!

 

Cranberries grow on low-running vines in sandy marshes and are one of only three commercially grown fruits native to North America…the other two being blueberries and Concord grapes. During harvesting, the berry marshes are flooded, special equipment is used to knock the berries off the vines, and then they float to the surface. Most of the world’s cranberries are grown on some 50,000 acres in the U.S. and Canada and are harvested in September and October. Perfect timing for fresh cranberry sauce at Thanksgiving!

 

Each year, Americans eat about 400 million pounds of cranberries with 20 percent of them consumed over Thanksgiving. The fruit can be eaten both fresh and dried, and is popular in muffins, trail mixes, cereals, salads, and of course juices.

 

So, what do you prefer? Fresh or canned? Whole berry canned or jellied? I prefer the whole berry and fresh but if you like that blob of gelled stuff, here is a fun way to make it festive using cookie cutters and some other fun and yummy recipes.

 

Have a berry Happy Thanksgiving!

 

Cranberry Brie Cups (Great for Thanksgiving morning!)

1 8 oz. tube crescent rolls dough

1 8 oz. wheel of brie (can substitute cream cheese)

½ cup whole berry cranberry sauce

Optional: chopped pecans on top

 

Preheat oven to 375 and grease mini muffin tin with cooking spray.

On a lightly floured surface, roll out crescent dough and pinch together seams.

Cut into 24 squares and place into muffin tin slots.

Cut cheese into small pieces and place inside crescent dough.

Top with a spoonful of cranberry sauce.

Bake until crescent pastry is golden, about 15 minutes.

 

 

Festive Pineapple Cranberry Salad (My favorite!)

1 can mandarin oranges

2 pkg. raspberry flavored gelatin

1 can whole berry cranberry sauce or 1 12 oz bag fresh or frozen cranberries thawed and boiled.

1 apple, chopped

Optional: chopped pecans

Drain oranges and pour juice into sauce pan with 3 cups cold water. Bring to boil and remove from heat. Add dry gelatin and stir 2 minutes. Stir in cranberry sauce. Pour into large bowl and add oranges and apple. Refrigerate 1 ½ hours or until slightly thickened.

 

 

Three Ingredient Cranberry Relish

(Anthony Bourdain calls this, “Delicious and truly one of the easiest recipes in the world.”)

Wash 1 large orange under warm water. Dry and coarsely chop skin, flesh, and pith. Remove seeds. Combine orange and 12 oz. fresh cranberries in food processor. Pulse until mixture appears grainy. Transfer to bowl and fold in 1 cup sugar. Cover and refrigerate overnight. Serve cold or at room temperature.

 

Tangy Cranberry Meatballs

(great use for any leftover cranberry sauce!)

Leftover cranberry sauce

¼ rice vinegar

2 T ketchup

2 T soy sauce

2 t Worcestershire sauce

1 t brown sugar

¼ cup water

2 lb. pkg. precooked cocktail-size meatballs

 

In a large saucepan combine all ingredients except meatballs, cook on medium low, and stir until smooth.

Add meatballs and cook until heated, about 10-15 minutes.

 

 

Cranberry Nut Bread (my mom’s recipe)

2 cups fresh, whole cranberries

2 T butter

2 cups sifted flour

1 cup and 2 T sugar

1 ¾ t baking powder

1 t salt

1 egg, well beaten

1/3 cup orange juice

1 t grated orange rind

¼ cup water

Cut cranberries in half. Melt and set aside butter. Sift together dry ingredients. Combine egg, orange juice, and water. Make well in dry ingredients and add liquids. Stir in butter. Add orange rind and cranberries. Bake at 350 for 1 hour.

 

 

Cranberry Salsa Dip

1 12 oz. bag fresh cranberries, rinsed

½ cup sugar

Green onions, chopped

1 jalapeno pepper, seeded and chopped

1 lime, juiced

Pinch of salt

2 8 oz. blocks cream cheese, softened

Put all ingredients except cream cheese in food processor. Pulse until ingredients are chopped coarsely. Put in airtight container and refrigerate for at least 4 hours. After, spread softened cream cheese on serving plate and spread salsa over cream cheese. Serve at room temperature with crackers.

 

 

Cranberry Hot Tea

1 48 oz. can cranberry juice cocktail

1 cup firmly packed brown sugar

1 cup orange juice

1 cup lemonade

1 cup pineapple juice

Cinnamon sticks

Combine all ingredients in a Dutch oven over low heat. Cook, stirring occasionally, 10 minutes or until sugar dissolves. Serve warm with cinnamon stick garnish.

 

 

Cranberry Punch

2 bottles cranberry juice

1 ½ bottles water (using juice bottle to measure)

2 cans frozen orange juice, thawed

Juice of 3 lemons or 9 T lemon juice

1 pkg. red hot candies

Whole cloves and sugar to taste

Put all ingredients in pot and heat on low until red hots melt. Transfer to crock pot to serve and keep warm.

 

 

Cape Cod

Mix 1 part vodka with cranberry juice to taste in highball glass and fill with ice. Garnish with lime wedge.

Variations:

Sea Breeze: add grapefruit juice

Bay Breeze: add pineapple juice

Cosmopolitan: add triple sec and serve in martini glass

 

 

Cranberry Kiss Cocktail

1.5 oz. cranberry vodka

2 oz. cranberry juice

1.5 oz. simple sugar

Lime wedges and mint leaves

Muddle 3 lime wedges and 8 mint leaves in a shaker. Add other ingredients and shake well with ice. Strain into a martini glass and garnish with floating mint leaves.