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Lessons From a Blockhead December 9, 2025

Filed under: Uncategorized — carlawordsmithblog @ 7:48 pm

Sixty years ago this year a classic was born when “A Charlie Brown Christmas” was first seen on American televisions. No one knew at the time that it would become a classic but generations have grown to love the simple story of a simple boy wanting to bring simplicity back into Christmas. Yep, that’s really what the legend is all about. Sure, it includes Snoopy’s silly dancing, fun piano riffs, a Christmas pageant, and what is undoubtedly one of the holiday’s most enduring symbols: the infamous Charlie Brown Christmas tree; but ultimately the script reminds us what the real gift of Christmas is.

 

 

In the tale, Charlie Brown is bummed because all his buddies…Lucy, Sally, even Snoopy…seem more concerned with presents and money than the reason for the season. Commercialism has run amok and it’s taken the Christmas spirit out of one Mr. Brown. When Lucy suggests he direct the Christmas play, Charlie Brown agrees and all seems to be going well until it’s time for him and Linus to pick out a tree. There’s peer pressure from the cast to choose a shiny aluminum one, but Charlie Brown chooses a small, sickly tree that he innocently believes only needs some tender loving care, saying “This little green one here seems to need a home.” Others laugh at it and at him, but the laughter stops when Linus gives a speech of all speeches in which he quotes Luke 2:8-14.

 

 

“For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, which is Christ the Lord. And this shall be a sign unto you; Ye shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger. And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God and saying, Glory to God in the highest and on earth peace, good will toward men.” Then Linus turns to his pal and says, “That’s what Christmas is all about Charlie Brown.”

 

End scene. Amen. Hallelujah.

 

“A Charlie Brown Christmas” premiered on CBS on December 9, 1965 and was viewed in and estimated 15,490,000 homes; nearly half of all those watching television that evening.

 

 

Shulz’s goal for the special was to focus on the true meaning of Christmas.  Many at the time even back then thought its quoting of the bible should maybe be rethought. Some even went so far as to ask  Schulz to omit any and all scripture. Schulz refused to do so. I can’t help but wonder if that happened today would today’s television producers and writers fall in line with Schulz.

 

 

In the end, the sound of sweet-voiced children singing “Christmastime is here” perfectly wrapped up the Christmas tale but it took Charlie Brown, Linus, and a droopy tree to remind everyone that unlike a shimmering aluminum tree, Christmas is not about tinsel and glitter. It’s about a King born in a barn in front of animals. You don’t get any more simple than that. Jesus could have been born anywhere, but He chose to be born in front of the lowly. If there was a tree in the manger, I’m guessing it was more like Charlie Brown’s than any color-coordinated or perfectly adorned tree.

 

 

Symbols of Christmas and Why Do We Give Gifts? December 7, 2025

Filed under: Uncategorized — carlawordsmithblog @ 7:51 pm

In many Western Christian churches, including most Catholic and Lutheran parishes, today marks the Second Sunday of Advent. Growing up, we didn’t really “celebrate” Advent but I’ve grown to embrace it. Expectation and anticipation come into play as we focus on hope, faith, joy, and peace…the four candles of an Advent wreath.

 

The word “advent” comes from the Latin word “adventus,” which means “coming.” During Advent, Christians patiently await the coming of their Savior, Jesus Christ. It generally begins on the fourth Sunday before Christmas, ends on Christmas Eve, and ranges in length from 22 to 29 days. Christians around the world have different ways of celebrating Advent. Some light candles, some sing, some eat candy, some give gifts, and some hang wreaths. As I mentioned above, one of the most popular Advent symbols is the Advent wreath.

 

 

Origins of the Advent Wreath are found in the folk practices of the pre-Christian Germanic people who gathered wreaths of evergreen and lighted fires as signs of hope in the cold and dark winter months in Eastern Europe. From Germany, the use of the Advent wreath spread across the Christian world.

 

 

 

Christians later kept the popular tradition alive and by the 16th century Catholics and Prostestants throughout Germany used the symbol to celebrate Advent. Legend has it that the four candles and the four weeks represent 1,000 years and together total the 4,000 years between Adam and Eve and Jesus’ birth. Three candles on the wreath are purple and one is pink. They signify Christ being the light of the world and the contrast between darkness and light.

 

 

Today, wreaths are made up of various evergreens shaped in a circle that represents continuous life, as well as four candles that symbolize the four weeks of Advent. On the first Sunday of Advent, a purple “Prophet’s Candle” is lit as we focus on Hope and Jesus’ coming. The second Sunday of Advent’s “Bethelehem Candle” purple candle symbolizes faith and is followed by the third Sunday’s pink “Shepherd’s Candle” reminding us of Joy and the birth of Jesus. On the last Sunday of Advent, the “Angel’s Candle” of Peace is lit. Some Advent wreaths also add a fifth white “Christ Candle” is the middle, which is lit on Christmas.

 

 

 

Then there’s the beloved manger scene: a simple stable complete with animals, a mom, a dad, and a baby like no other. What always reigns me in is the fact that the King of kings chose not to be born in a castle or palace, but in what was in essence a barn. This, along with the poor shepherds surrounding Him, can serve as reminders of the poor among us, as Father Larry reminded us of in today’s mass.

 

 

 

Yesterday Catholics celebrated the Feast of St. Nicholas. Considered the “first Santa,” good ole St. Nick wore a red coat like Santa, had a beard, and loved to share and give. He’s also mentioned in the classic “The Night Before Christmas.” Who knew?!

 

A very rich and generous man, St. Nicholas heard about a family that didn’t have enough money to buy food so he snuck onto their roof and threw some gold coins down their chimney. The coins landed in their stockings, which were hanging over the fire to dry. This, my friends, is why we hang stockings on fireplaces and put treats in them!

 

 

Candy canes are also sometimes found on mantels and something about them just makes me smile. I particularly love their red-and-white striped pattern as I love stripes, I love patterns, and I love me some red and white! I remember my mom hanging them on our Christmas tree and although I don’t follow her in that practice, I do have a festive vase of them sitting on my kitchen counter every Christmas. Candy canes are fun and festive and they also have an interesting story behind them.

 

 

 

Did you know the flavor of peppermint is similar to hyssop, which is a member of the mint family and was used in biblical times for purification? The shape of the candy cane also has religious undertones as on that first Christmas morn, who were among the first to visit and meet Baby Jesus? That would be shepherds and as they paid homage to the newborn Savior, they carried with them their crooks, which they used in the field to round up sheep. It’s no coincidence that candy canes resemble those curved, reminders and that like the shepherds, Jesus protects us like His little lambs.

 

The red and white colors of a candy cane are said to represent purity and love. And finally, what do you get when you turn a candy cane upside down? The letter J. Whose name starts with J? Jesus!

 

Funny thing though, I really don’t love to eat candy canes. I just like to look at them. Maybe I should rethink this, as peppermint like the kind found in candy canes, actually has some major health benefits.

 

 

And last but certainly not least, why do we give presents? Well, think of the 3 Kings. They brought gifts to the infant King and by giving to others, we model their generous act. Our daughter Kristen only gets three presents at Christmas, which has been our family tradition all her life. If three gifts were good enough for Jesus, they are certainly good enough for the rest of us!

 

 

 

All of these things explain some age-old traditions and also demonstrate the true meaning of Christmas. It breaks my heart to see the real reason for the season become increasingly secular, “offensive,” and commercial but my hope is that by sitting back and understanding exactly why we have days off in December and why stores love this time of the year, we will realize that there is so much more to it all than just time off, shopping, and Santa. I have hope.

 

A Berry Good Thanksgiving Tradition November 19, 2025

Filed under: Uncategorized — carlawordsmithblog @ 10:58 pm

I’ll be spending Thanksgiving this year again with my husband’s side of the family, which has become an annual tradition I’ve grown to love. Another tradition I’ve grown to love is the serving of cranberry sauce alongside the turkey, dressing, potatoes, green beans, pies, and the likes. In fact, it’s something I volunteer to bring each year. I was never a big fan of cranberries back in the “open a can and pour out the log” days, but I’ve grown to love them with each new recipe I’ve discovered as well as my tried and true one. What about you? Yay or nay on cranberry sides? And what exactly are those little red berries that we generally only eat once a year?

 

The small, red, and tart fruit is actually very healthy and we can thank Native Americans for them, as they mixed cranberries with deer meat waaaay back in the day. They may have even shared some with the Pilgrims on that first Thanksgiving Day.

 

History also notes sailors used cranberries as a source of Vitamin C to prevent scurvy, and more recent studies suggest cranberries promote gastrointestinal and oral health, raise the good HDL cholesterol, and may even help prevent cancer.

 

 

The very first official harvesting of cranberries was by Revolutionary War veteran Henry Hall, who planted the first commercial beds in Dennis, Massachusetts in 1816. Many of today’s cranberry bogs are in fact more than 100 years old!

 

Cranberries grow on low-running vines in sandy marshes and are one of only three commercially grown fruits native to North America…the other two being blueberries and Concord grapes. During harvesting, the berry marshes are flooded, special equipment is used to knock the berries off the vines, and then they float to the surface. Most of the world’s cranberries are grown on some 50,000 acres in the U.S. and Canada and are harvested in September and October. Perfect timing for fresh cranberry sauce at Thanksgiving!

 

Each year, Americans eat about 400 million pounds of cranberries with 20 percent of them consumed over Thanksgiving. The fruit can be eaten both fresh and dried, and is popular in muffins, trail mixes, cereals, salads, and of course juices.

 

So, what do you prefer? Fresh or canned? Whole berry canned or jellied? I prefer the whole berry and fresh but if you like that blob of gelled stuff, here is a fun way to make it festive using cookie cutters and some other fun and yummy recipes.

 

Have a berry Happy Thanksgiving!

 

Cranberry Brie Cups (Great for Thanksgiving morning!)

1 8 oz. tube crescent rolls dough

1 8 oz. wheel of brie (can substitute cream cheese)

½ cup whole berry cranberry sauce

Optional: chopped pecans on top

 

Preheat oven to 375 and grease mini muffin tin with cooking spray.

On a lightly floured surface, roll out crescent dough and pinch together seams.

Cut into 24 squares and place into muffin tin slots.

Cut cheese into small pieces and place inside crescent dough.

Top with a spoonful of cranberry sauce.

Bake until crescent pastry is golden, about 15 minutes.

 

 

Festive Pineapple Cranberry Salad (My favorite!)

1 can mandarin oranges

2 pkg. raspberry flavored gelatin

1 can whole berry cranberry sauce or 1 12 oz bag fresh or frozen cranberries thawed and boiled.

1 apple, chopped

Optional: chopped pecans

Drain oranges and pour juice into sauce pan with 3 cups cold water. Bring to boil and remove from heat. Add dry gelatin and stir 2 minutes. Stir in cranberry sauce. Pour into large bowl and add oranges and apple. Refrigerate 1 ½ hours or until slightly thickened.

 

 

Three Ingredient Cranberry Relish

(Anthony Bourdain calls this, “Delicious and truly one of the easiest recipes in the world.”)

Wash 1 large orange under warm water. Dry and coarsely chop skin, flesh, and pith. Remove seeds. Combine orange and 12 oz. fresh cranberries in food processor. Pulse until mixture appears grainy. Transfer to bowl and fold in 1 cup sugar. Cover and refrigerate overnight. Serve cold or at room temperature.

 

Tangy Cranberry Meatballs

(great use for any leftover cranberry sauce!)

Leftover cranberry sauce

¼ rice vinegar

2 T ketchup

2 T soy sauce

2 t Worcestershire sauce

1 t brown sugar

¼ cup water

2 lb. pkg. precooked cocktail-size meatballs

 

In a large saucepan combine all ingredients except meatballs, cook on medium low, and stir until smooth.

Add meatballs and cook until heated, about 10-15 minutes.

 

 

Cranberry Nut Bread (my mom’s recipe)

2 cups fresh, whole cranberries

2 T butter

2 cups sifted flour

1 cup and 2 T sugar

1 ¾ t baking powder

1 t salt

1 egg, well beaten

1/3 cup orange juice

1 t grated orange rind

¼ cup water

Cut cranberries in half. Melt and set aside butter. Sift together dry ingredients. Combine egg, orange juice, and water. Make well in dry ingredients and add liquids. Stir in butter. Add orange rind and cranberries. Bake at 350 for 1 hour.

 

 

Cranberry Salsa Dip

1 12 oz. bag fresh cranberries, rinsed

½ cup sugar

Green onions, chopped

1 jalapeno pepper, seeded and chopped

1 lime, juiced

Pinch of salt

2 8 oz. blocks cream cheese, softened

Put all ingredients except cream cheese in food processor. Pulse until ingredients are chopped coarsely. Put in airtight container and refrigerate for at least 4 hours. After, spread softened cream cheese on serving plate and spread salsa over cream cheese. Serve at room temperature with crackers.

 

 

Cranberry Hot Tea

1 48 oz. can cranberry juice cocktail

1 cup firmly packed brown sugar

1 cup orange juice

1 cup lemonade

1 cup pineapple juice

Cinnamon sticks

Combine all ingredients in a Dutch oven over low heat. Cook, stirring occasionally, 10 minutes or until sugar dissolves. Serve warm with cinnamon stick garnish.

 

 

Cranberry Punch

2 bottles cranberry juice

1 ½ bottles water (using juice bottle to measure)

2 cans frozen orange juice, thawed

Juice of 3 lemons or 9 T lemon juice

1 pkg. red hot candies

Whole cloves and sugar to taste

Put all ingredients in pot and heat on low until red hots melt. Transfer to crock pot to serve and keep warm.

 

 

Cape Cod

Mix 1 part vodka with cranberry juice to taste in highball glass and fill with ice. Garnish with lime wedge.

Variations:

Sea Breeze: add grapefruit juice

Bay Breeze: add pineapple juice

Cosmopolitan: add triple sec and serve in martini glass

 

 

Cranberry Kiss Cocktail

1.5 oz. cranberry vodka

2 oz. cranberry juice

1.5 oz. simple sugar

Lime wedges and mint leaves

Muddle 3 lime wedges and 8 mint leaves in a shaker. Add other ingredients and shake well with ice. Strain into a martini glass and garnish with floating mint leaves.

 

 

One Potato, Sweet Potato, Yams! November 11, 2025

Filed under: Uncategorized — carlawordsmithblog @ 9:31 pm

Are you starting to stock up on Thanksgiving fixins? Did sweet potatoes or yams make the cut? I love a simple baked sweet potato and will make one with salmon any time my hubby is out of town as he hates both. For me, either or works…sweet potatoes or yams…and whichever is picked for Turkey Day I’m okay with as they are healthy and yummy. But, different from each other. Read on…

 

 

The popular saying is “puh-tay-toe” “puh-tah-toe,” but this time of year it switches to yams or sweet potatoes…however you say that last word. So, as we get ready to celebrate all things thankful, let’s say thank you to both! Both are critical Thanksgiving Day side dishes and chalk full of nutrients. Okay, maybe not when mixed with brown sugar and marshmallows, but when done right, they really should be part of not only your Thanksgiving meal but your year-long diet.

 

 

Sweet potatoes aren’t yams though, and they’re not even true potatoes! According to my Concierge Choice Physicians newsletter, a potato is considered a “tuber” and a sweet potato is actually a root vegetable. It’s often described as a “tuberous root” to cover all bases. Both potatoes and sweet potatoes grow under the soil but they have different flavor profiles and nutritional content. This, we all probably already knew, right? And as for yams vs. sweet potatoes, they are both root vegetables but belong to two different plant families.  And by “plants,” we’re talking real plants.

 

The sweet potato is from the morning glory family while the yam is related to the lily. Who knew?! Yams are generally more starchy and less sweet than their sweetly named cousins and they grow much larger. And other than Thanksgiving Day tables in the U.S.A., where you’re from may dictate which one you eat and cook with. Yams are commonly used in African, Asian, and Caribbean cooking while sweet potatoes are generally more popular in New World Cooking.

 

 

I know many of you consider fresh sweet potatoes healthier than those canned cubes soaked in syrup, but ironically many of the popular canned yams you see this time of year are technically sweet potatoes. If you’re picky about one or the other, check the label. When buying fresh ones, you’ll also want to check your choice.

 

 

If you have preference when shopping, make sure you’re buying what you’re hoping to buy. Yam have long, tapered shapes and skin that looks more like bark than a traditional potato skin. They have a neutral flavor, tough flesh, yucca-like texture, and are best when boiled in savory recipes like soups, stews, and chilis.

 

The most common varieties of sweet potatoes have smooth orange or reddish skin, orange flesh, and a sweet flavor. But of course considering their name!  Surprisingly, both (even the canned ones) are healthy depending on how you prepare them. Let’s start with yams.

 

 

Yams are linked to many health benefits including boosting brain health, reducing inflammation, improving blood sugar levels, inhibiting the progression of both osteoporosis and rheumatoid arthritis, and reducing cholesterol and LDL levels. A single yam also packs nearly 370 percent of your daily Vitamin A requirement and even canned yams are great sources of fiber, potassium, manganese, copper, and antioxidants. Canned yams in syrup are non-GMO, contain no preservatives, and are certified by the American Heart Association as a heart healthy food.

 

 

But what about all that syrup in the canned variety? What’s really in it? Basically, sweet potatoes, water, corn syrup, and sugar. Ick, right? No worries! You can actually remove the sugar by rinsing the pieces in water before cooking them because pieces of sweet potato don’t absorb sugar so whatever is in the can stays on the surface of them. Perhaps best of all is the fact that canned sweet potatoes are already cooked meaning Carla’s Sweet Potato Casserole cooks fast and who doesn’t want at least a few Thanksgiving dishes that cook quickly? One more tidbit: about three unpeeled fresh sweet potatoes or yams are in a standard 29 ounce can.

 

 

Sweet potatoes on the whole have a higher concentration of most nutrients, have more fiber, and are generally more nutritious than yams. In fact, they are considered “nutrient dense” in that one cup of a baked sweet potato with the skin on provides more than 50 percent of your daily Vitamin A, C, and Magnesium requirement and more than 25 percent of your Vitamin B6 and Potassium requirement. Vitamin C supports your immune systems and helps absorb iron. Diets low in Vitamin C an increase your risk of anemia and no wants a low immune level. Sweet potatoes are also loaded with antioxidants that protect your body from inflammation and possibly even cancer, heart disease, and aging.

 

Sweet potatoes are also good for your gut as they are loaded with both soluble and insoluble fiber and their antioxidants promote healthy gut bacteria growth, the former may lower the risk of colon cancer and the latter thought to limit conditions such as irritable bowel syndrome.

 

 

The eyes also have it with sweet potatoes! What food do we immediately think of as good for the eyes? Carrots, right? What color are carrots? Orange. What color is the flesh of a sweet potato? Orange. And yes, you guessed it; that orange color is due to high amounts of beta-carotene, which your body converts into Vitamin A and uses to form light-detecting receptors inside your eyes, much like it does with carrots. And, how ironic that both carrots and sweet potatoes are root vegetables.

 

 

In the end, can you substitute sweet potatoes for yams and vice-versa? The bad news and short answer is “no,” so do your best to use what is listed on any given recipe. The good news is, those canned yams are not as bad as you maybe once thought they were. Want a sweet dish? Go for true sweet potatoes. Want a more savory dish? Opt for yams. Want it in a hurry? A canned variety is the way to go. However you say it and whatever version you use, I hope your sweet puh-tay-toe/puh-tah-toe/yam casserole dish is yummy! Let’s be thankful for it all.

 

Happy Thanksgiving everyone and here are just a few recipes you might enjoy…I personally leave out the pecans in all but am including them for your preference.

 

Ann’s Perfectly Baked Sweet Potato

Wash potato and cut off both ends.

Put in cold oven directly on rack and above cookie sheet and then heat to 425.

Cook for 1 hour and then turn off oven but keep potato in oven for 30 more minutes.

Top with butter or toppings of your choice.

 

 

Candied Yam Soufflé

Sandra Lee

Ingredients

1 stick of butter

1 cup light brown sugar

½ cup chopped pecans

2 large (40 oz.) can large yams or sweet potatoes, drained

1 t ground cinnamon

1 t ground nutmeg

1 12 oz. jar marshmallow topping (or mini marshmallows)

 

Directions

Preheat oven to 325.

Melt butter in saucepan over medium heat.

Add brown sugar and pecans and simmer for 3 minutes.

Meanwhile, place drained yams in large bowl and mash finely.

Pour sugar/pecan mixture over yams and stir until thoroughly combined.

Add cinnamon and nutmeg and stir.

Transfer to a metal pie pan and top with marshmallow topping or marshmallows.

Bake for 15 minutes.

Remove from oven and raise oven temp to 400 degrees and bake additional 10 minutes.

Watch carefully to keep from over burning.

 

 

 

Ruth’s Chris Sweet Potato Casserole

Crust Ingredients

¾ cup brown sugar

¼ cup flour

¾ cup chopped nuts…pecans preferred

¼ cup melted butter

 

Sweet Potato Ingredients

¾ cup sugar

¼ cup salt

½ t vanilla

2 cups mashed sweet potatoes

¼ cup butter

 

Directions

Preheat oven to 350.

Combine crust ingredients and mix in bowl. Set aside.

Pour sweet potato mixture into buttered baking dish.

Sprinkle crust mixture evenly on top.

Bake for 30 minutes.

Allow minimum 30 minutes to cool before serving.

 

 

 

Sweet Potato Casserole

The Sandy Show & The Pioneer Woman

Ingredients

4 whole medium sweet potatoes

1 cup sugar

1 cup milk

2 whole eggs

1 t vanilla extract

1 t salt

1 cup brown sugar

1 cup pecans

½ cup flour

¾ stick of softened butter

 

Directions

Wash potatoes and bake at 375 about 30-35 minutes or until fork tender.

When done, slice open and scrape out flesh into a large bowl.

Add sugar, milk, eggs, vanilla, and salt and mash slightly.

In separate bowl, combine brown sugar, pecans, flour, and butter and mix thoroughly.

Spread sweet potato mixture into baking dish and sprinkle with crumb mixture on top.

Bake at 400 for 30 minutes.

 

 

 

 

Praline Sweet Potatoes

Texascooppower.com

Potatoes Ingredients

3 cups cooked and mashed sweet potatoes

1 cup brown sugar

2 eggs, beaten

1 t vanilla extract

½ cup milk

½ cup (1 stick) melted butter

 

Topping Ingredients

1 cup chopped pecans

½ cup brown sugar

½ cup flour

1/3 cup (1/2 stick) melted butter

 

Preheat oven to 350 and butter 9×13 baking dish.

In large bowl, combine potatoes with brown sugar, eggs, vanilla, milk, and butter.

Pour into prepared baking dish.

In small bowl, combine pecans, brown sugar, and flour.

Stir in melted butter until crumble forms.

Scatter evenly over top of sweet potatoes.

Bake 30-40 minutes and until topping is golden brown or crunchy.

 

 

 

 

Heart Healthy Chipotle Chili

Orlandodietician.com

Ingredients

2 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil
1 large yellow onion, diced
2 garlic cloves, diced
3 cups peeled and seeded butternut squash, cut into 1/2 inch pieces
1 medium parsnip, peeled and cut into 1/2 inch pieces
1 large sweet potato, cut into 1/2 inch pieces
2 tablespoons chili powder
2 tablespoons ground cumin
1 tablespoon unsweetened cocoa powder
1 teaspoon cinnamon
2 14.5 oz. cans diced tomatoes, undrained
2 chipotle peppers in adobo sauce, diced
1 tablespoon adobo sauce (from the same can)
2 cups water
2 teaspoons vegetable base
2 cups chopped kale (remove the hard stems)f
1 15 oz. can black beans, rinsed and drained
Fresh ground pepper to taste

6 tablespoons of plain Greek yogurt (optional, for topping)

 

Directions

  1. In large pot, heat oil over medium-high heat and add onion and garlic. Sautee 3 minutes then add butternut squash, parsnips, and sweet potato, stirring with a wooden spoon. Cook and stir occasionally for 10 minutes. Add in chili powder, cumin, cocoa and cinnamon. Cook for one more minute.

 

  1. Stir in tomatoes, chipotle peppers, water and vegetable base. Cover, reduce heat and simmer for 30 minutes or until vegetables are tender. Add kale and stir until wilted. Add black beans, cook an additional two minutes and add pepper to taste.

 

  1. Serve with a dollop (one tablespoon) of Greek yogurt on top.

 

 

 

Roasted Sweet Potato Fries
Orlandodietician.com

Ingredients

  • 1 large sweet potato (skin on)
  • 1 and 1/2 teaspoons ground cumin
  • 1/4 teaspoon garlic powder
  • 1/2 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
  • 1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper
  • 1 tablespoon extra-virgin olive oil

 

Directions

  1. Preheat oven to 425 degrees. Rinse the potato well and cut into thin strips.
  2. In a large bowl or mix together the spices and olive oil. Toss in the potatoes and coat with spice mixture (you could also do this in a large plastic bag).
  3. Place potatoes on a baking sheet and bake for 20 minutes. Turn and bake on the other side for an additional 15 minutes or until fries are browned and crisp.

 

 

Disclaimer: Always check with your health provider before adding anything to your diet or nutrition plan.

 

 

Winging It November 9, 2025

Filed under: Uncategorized — carlawordsmithblog @ 9:00 am

Sundays in the fall have three traditions in our home: Sunday mass, Buffalo Bills game, and wings. No, not the kind that angels or birds have, but the kind that Bills Mafia and others eat up by the millions. And I mean millions…sometimes even billions! In fact, on any given Super Bowl Sunday (which I’m praying the Bills make it to this year) it’s estimated that Americans will gobble up on average, 1.5 billion wings. And yes, to loyalists, they’re just “wings.” Not “chicken wings.” Not “Buffalo wings.” IYKYK.

 

 

But what are they exactly? You’ll find teriyaki, BBQ, and a host of other flavored chicken wing options, but there’s really only one real wing: The Buffalo Chicken Wing. When made right, they are uh-mazing and they have an interesting history as I learned many years ago from my Buffalo born and raised husband.

 

No, Buffalo wings aren’t buffalo meat (buffalos don’t have wings), and no, Chili’s didn’t invent the wing nor did Pluckers or Buffalo Wild Wings. That honor belongs to Frank and Teressa Bellissimo. Here’s the story: Frank and Teressa established The Anchor Bar and Grill in downtown Buffalo, New York back in 1935 and had quite the popular neighborhood watering hole. But, it wasn’t until 1964 that that hole-in-the-wall became an historic one.

 

 

It was on a Friday night in 1964 when their son Dominic and a group of his friends told mamma Bellissimo they wanted a late-night snack. Teressa looked around and saw some left over chicken wings, which were usually tossed or reserved for stocks or soups. Knowing she needed something fast and easy, she deep fried the wings and then tossed them in a cayenne hot sauce. She served them with celery stalks and bleu cheese dressing because she also had extras of them lying around. The rest, as they say, is history.

 

 

 

Teressa’s wings were a hit that night and it didn’t take long for word to spread that the Anchor Bar had a great new dish. Today, the original restaurant at the corner of Main and North Streets is considered the birthplace of wings and still serves up its famous fingerlings to locals, tourists, and even some celebrities including Elvis, John Lennon, Britney Spears, the late John Candy, numerous athletes, and even more Bills players.

 

Not only are they popular, they’re award-winning. In April 2003, the Anchor Bar won the “James Beard Award,” which is given to restaurants that have timeless appeal and are beloved for quality food that reflects the history and character of their community.

 

 

 

And, in 1977 the city of Buffalo issued an official proclamation celebrating the Anchor Bar and its owners and declared July 29, 1977 “Chicken Wing Day.” Frank Bellissimo died in 1980 at the age of 84 and Teressa died a year later in her apartment above the bar. They both passed at the age of 84. Dominic, the son whose late-night cravings resulted in his mom’s famous wings, later owned the restaurant. He died in 1991 and in 1999 the franchising of Anchor Bar restaurants was established.

 

 

An Anchor Bar bottled sauce line launched in 1999 and today can be found in more than 3,000 retailers and franchise restaurants like the one right near our Texas home can be found in eight states besides New York. The world-famous brand was even included in a “Simpsons” episode and has been featured on “The Bachelorette” and too many foodie shows to list here.

 

To this day, nowhere in the world are the wings as good as what you get in Western New York. Finding them elsewhere is a bit like looking for cheesesteaks in Oregon, Tex-Mex in Maryland, or gumbo in Iowa. They just aren’t comparable or even close to the real deals.

 

Wings in Buffalo are so delicious that I truly can eat a dozen of them all by myself. They are most often accompanied by drums and are big, crispy, never greasy or runny, and just the right amount of spicy. If you want them hot you can, but be careful as your mouth will be on fire. My husband says he remembers eating wings so hot that he’d run outside and put his lips in the snow. I don’t know if that’s totally true but it makes for a great story!

 

 

Deep-fried chicken wings are nothing culinary new and have been a southern staple for years, but most of those wings are breaded. Buffalo chicken wings are never breaded. You simply fry them up and then then coat them with a level of hot sauce to your choosing. Simple, classic, and delicious. And please, no ranch dressing on the side. Bleu cheese only is the way to go. (Although truth be told, we do like a little ranch on the side. Shhhhh!)

 

No trip to Buffalo is complete without a stop at the Anchor Bar but if you can’t make it to the original location, not to worry, there’s one right inside the Buffalo airport. So, as you make your way out of the airport on your way to perhaps Niagara Falls, be sure to stop and get you some wings before exiting.

 

 

Wings are so sacred in the Buffalo area, that friends and family actually argue over which neighborhood spot has the best ones. The most popular one in my husband’s hometown village of East Aurora, where Mr. Fisher and Mr. Price started Fisher-Price toys in their garage and where America’s Arts and Crafts movement began more than a century ago with the original Roycrofters and thinker Elbert Hubbard, is the Bar-Bill Tavern. The classic Main Street pub is housed in a 150-year-old building and always makes local and national “Best Buffalo Wings” lists. It is sure to be front and center in the upcoming “Holiday Touchdown: A Bills Love Story” Hallmark movie debuting November 11. Ironically, when I first met my husband, I was somewhat captivated by his tales of the “village” where he grew up. I’ve forever said it’s like a Hallmark movie set and actually has been the site of many a Hallmark movie.

 

I’m not quite sure how wings became so entwined with football watch parties but maybe it’s because they are a popular bar food, they are a filling finger food, and they are so dang good.

 

So, there you have it, the story behind those wings you’ll probably be munching on today. Now you know they’re not only yummy but a true tasty and timeless tradition. Bellissimo!

 

 

 

 

The Pies Have It: What Your Favorite Pie Says About You November 3, 2025

Filed under: Uncategorized — carlawordsmithblog @ 7:04 pm

The month of Thanksgiving is officially upon us, which means most of us are stocking up on all the staples like stuffing, sweet potatoes, and ingredients for pies…including butter, which I just recently blogged about Many pie varieties will make their way to our Thanksgiving Day tables, all of which are Turkey Day traditions, particularly pumpkin. I love both Thanksgiving and pumpkin pie so it’s always a win-win for me. But, did you know that pie at Thanksgiving really has nothing to do with the Pilgrims or Native Americans? In fact, common belief is that the tradition was probably started by a magazine sometime in the mid-nineteenth century. Who knew?!

 

Pioneer Woman

Nothing like a pie chart of pies, and it looks like pumpkin wins the gold with apple and pecan competing for the silver. Chocolate? We’ll give it the bronze. I’m happily one team pumpkin pie as I love it to literal pieces and have my grandma’s recipe. Our daughter, on the other hand, loves pecan pie. Me, not so much. My husband? He’ll have a little of everything.

 

A recent survey reveals that I am not alone in my pumpkin pie obsession. Here are the most popular go-to Thanksgiving pies ranked according to how many people said they were their faves:

Pumpkin – 50 percent

Pecan – 27 percent

Apple – 20 percent

 

It’s fun to look at all this state-by-state as well, which when looking at it, winners aren’t really any surprise, right?

 

And guess what, just like pies, which come in all flavors and styles, the one you like the best says something about your unique traits and personality. Just what do your pie choices say about you? According to “The Tasteful Life,” a lot!

 

If pumpkin pie is your favorite, you are nostalgic and a traditionalist.  (yep, that’s me!)

Pecan pie lovers like the simple things in life and are seekers of love.

Apple?  You’re all-American and predictable.  You are probably also the healthier one of the pie bunch.

Let’s dive and cut in a little deeper.

 

 

Pumpkin Pie A Thanksgiving tradition, pumpkin pie is considered an American tradition. Made of one of the earliest import foods Europeans introduced the New World to, the orange squash quickly became beloved by Colonists and remains so today.

 

The pie is a fall tradition so those who like it best often consider fall their favorite season. Raising my hand! Those who love pumpkin pie also love sitting at home cuddled up with a cozy blanket, a fire, and maybe a good book or good friends. Yep, that’s me too. Pumpkin pie is considered simple and a classic, and so are pumpkin pie lovers. They are nostalgic and traditionalists; like to keep things chic but not fussy; are effortlessly elegant; and are most likely emotionally stable, consistent, and reliable. Pumpkin pie lovers also can’t stand drama or chaos and having a calm environment is very important to them. Chills, as all of this describes me to a tee.

 

 

 

Apple Pie

According to the American Pie Council, this is America’s all-around pie of choice, and rightly so, right?  If it’s your favorite, you’re probably “As American as Apple Pie,” love tradition and security and can tend to be a tad predictable. You’re also inclined to loyally lean on the same products again and again whether it be your dish soap or your favorite jeans. You are also grounded, compassionate, outdoor lover, enjoy being active, and are a realistic person and friend.

 

 

 

Pecan Pie

Pecan pie is very sweet and if it’s your fave, so are you! Lovers of this pie tend to like the simple things in life and are seekers of love. Especially popular in the south, there are many versions of pecan pie, but all are sweet and all are beloved. Lovers of pecan pie are likely thoughtful and analytical and have tons of friends. Those friends love your rationality and loyalty and often come to you for advice. Sounds like you are just like pecan pie itself: infectious!

 

And now for all those other pies that may not be true Thanksgiving traditions but you may be making:

 

 

Peach Pie. Probably my second favorite pie, peach pie has been around forever and is so versatile. You can serve it hot or cold and make it with fresh, frozen, or canned peaches. If you love peach pie, you probably also love a challenge and love for your mind to be stimulated.  You are definitely a thinker but sometimes over analyze and you are someone who learns from mistakes and trials. You also hate to fail. Hmmm…me again.

 

Blueberry Pie. Blueberries can stain a table cloth or shirt like nobody’s business but guess what; if this is your favorite pie you couldn’t care less! A blueberry pie lover is that fun-loving, laid back, life of the party person. In fact, you’re kinda like the pie itself, which is considered by many the easiest to make, in that you are easy going and open minded and you love when others succeed. You are also smart, have excellent taste, don’t embarrass easily, and are quick to laugh at yourself. Relax and be happy: you’re a blueberry pie lover!

 

Cherry Pie. When I think of a cherry pie, I think tart and so are you to a certain extent if this is your pie pick! It’s all in a good way though in that you have attitude and confidence and you don’t let people push you around. You, like the bright red of the cherries themselves, don’t mind standing out in a crowd, and you live for a little excitement. That yearning for adventure means you’re a risk taker, are game for trying new things and taking on new hobbies, and are rarely bored with life.

 

Sweet Potato Pie. Often confused with its more popular cousin the pumpkin pie, sweet potato pie has also been around since colonial times. Its ingredients were adapted from African cuisine and it’s still a staple soul food item. It’s nostalgic and very southern, and so are you if you love it. It’s also usually a surprising but welcome sight at holiday gatherings and again, so are you!

 

Lemon Meringue Pie. Like the tangy center of this pie, you are bubbly and full of optimism. You are anything but “basic” and love bright colors and making the best of every situation and life in general. You could say your motto is “When life gives you lemons, make a lemon meringue pie!”

 

Chocolate Silk Pie. To me, this is basically a chocolate pudding pie but to those who favor it, it’s much, much more. Baked properly, a chocolate silk pie is just that: smooth as silk. So are you. You prefer the best things in life and have great taste. Richness emotes from the pie and from you.

 

So, there you have it. What does your favorite pie say about you? Do the traits describe you? I’m “pie-ing” to know! And just for fun, print this out and ask family and friends which pie is their favorite and then have fun sharing what it says about them.

 

 

 

Also a fun idea: using a muffin tin full of all those different pies. Each one is the perfect size and I might just do this this year!

 

All of this got me thinking.  What does the rest of the food at the Thanksgiving table say about us?  Let’s find out!

 

 

 

If the turkey is your favorite part of a Thanksgiving meal, you are probably strong, honest, and reliable. You are also probably a traditionalist and a true friend.

 

Those who dive right into the stuffing (or dressing as some call it) love to laugh and are fun and lively. They are most likely the life of a Thanksgiving Day party.

 

 

Crazy over cranberries?  Then you are more than likely nostalgic and are the one adult who doesn’t mind sitting at the kids’ table.

 

Mashed potato lovers tend to be a bit sophisticated and reserved, but if the mood strikes them, they loosen up and they enjoy life to the fullest.

 

If the green beans get you, you are hands down the health nut of the bunch…unless it’s that famous recipe with cream soup and fried onions!

 

 

Whatever is your liking, as we all do our shopping, plan our Thanksgiving meals, and as cook and bake ‘til we’re turkeyed-out, let’s remember to focus on being thankful and what ingredients are really important in the recipe for life.

 

“Into each day put equal parts of faith, patience, courage, work, hope, fidelity, kindness, rest, prayer, and one well-selected solution.  Add one teaspoon of good spirits, a dash of fun, a pinch of folly, a sprinkle of play, and a heaping cup of good humor.”

Author Unknown

 

 

Butter Me Up November 1, 2025

Filed under: Uncategorized — carlawordsmithblog @ 9:00 am

Halloween has come and gone and Thanksgiving and Christmas are less than one and two months away respectively and you know what that means: it’s time to bake! And whether you’re making pies, cookies, or other holiday treats, you’re probably all using one thing in those recipes: butter. But before you turn up your health-focused nose, know that while butter is often dismissed as an unhealthy ingredient, butter does have its benefits and I’m here to spread its love.

 

Quick sidenote: As I’ve put this blog together and researched, come to find out Health Secretary Robert F. Kennedy, Jr. is set to unveil new dietary guidance encouraging consumption of foods high in saturated and trans fats, which was announced mere days ago. Kennedy says food like butter, cheese, milk, and even red meats have been “unfairly demonized for decades.” I’ll be following this more closely and suggest you do too.

 

But I digress…

Back to butter.

 

 

 

The Tasting Table calls butter the great unifier across countries, cultures, and backgrounds. Who doesn’t love butter, right? People have loved it for centuries! The earliest use of butter can be traced back to 8000 B.C. in Africa and in 16th century Europe, it was common to give newlyweds butter, which was a symbol of wealth and fertility. All these years later, the condiment is popular and used all over the world. Yes, it gets a bad rap from some but all butter is not the same.

 

Yes, butter of all types is high in fat, but it can also be a source of vitamins A, D, and E and in moderation it can be a healthy, yep healthy, part of your diet. I’ll get to the bad stuff in a bit, but know that butter is rich in nutrients like bone-building calcium and has compounds linked to lower chances of obesity. Now that doesn’t mean you can eat a sleeve of cookies or a whole pie, but in moderation it does have benefits.

 

 

WebMD reports that butter may help lower your chances of cancer as a grass-fed variety is high in beta-carotene, a compound your body coverts into vitamin A and one that has been linked to lowered risks of lung and prostate cancers. That beta-carotene is also good for your eyes and may help slow the rate of vision loss or age-related macular degeneration. The vitamin D in butter is a nutrient vital for bone growth and development as is the calcium in it, which can help prevent diseases such as osteoporosis. Finally, butter can make your skin healthier and you don’t even need to spread it on! Butter has vitamin E, which is essential in skin health in that it reduces damage from UV rays, eases skin inflammation, and helps skin wounds heal. I’m here to say I believe this as my mom ate butter all her 94 years and had the most beautiful skin!

 

In short, butter is a dairy product made from the proteins and fats found in milk and cream. Most U.S. butter is cow milk-based and it, like almost all varieties, is high in fat. One tablespoon of unsalted butter contains on average 102 calories, 11.5 grams of fat (7 of which are saturated), and 0 grams of carbohydrates, fiber, sugar, and protein.

 

 

Butter is indeed high in calories and fat, including saturated fat, which is linked to heart disease. The animal fats in butter also mean it has higher levels of saturated and trans fats, which can lead to higher cholesterol, risks of heart disease, and lower levels of HDL cholesterol…the “good” cholesterol that unclogs arteries. All of this means you should use butter sparingly.

 

Butter comes in many forms including grass-fed, whipped, reduced fat, clarified ghee. Many of you may be wondering about margarine too, so let’s look at all of these.

 

 

Grass-fed butter does boast some health benefits that may counteract health risks. It has lower levels of saturated fats and more unsaturated fats than standard butter because the milk it comes for is from cows that graze instead of being fed high-grain diets. It has about the same amount of calories and fats as 1 tablespoon of butter, but it’s a rich source of beta-carotene, vitamin K, Omega-3 fatty acids, and other ingredients.

 

Whipped butter is regular butter whipped up using nitrogen gas, is best for spreading, and shouldn’t be used in recipes.

 

The same can be said about reduced-fat butter, as it shouldn’t be used to replace regular butter in baked goods or for pan-frying. It does have around 40 percent less milk fat than standard butter and fat from cow’s milk is replaced with water and gelatin.

 

 

Clarified butter or “ghee,” is something I learned about not too long ago as the mom of one of my daughter’s friends had some on their kitchen counter. It looked interesting and easy enough but I never fully jumped on board. Ghee is a type of clarified butter that originates from India, made by simmering butter to separate the milk solids and water, resulting in a rich, nutty-flavored fat. It also has a high smoke point that makes it well-suited for frying and sauteing foods.

 

Those looking for vegan and dairy-free cooking should consider plant butter, as it is made with plant oils such as avocado, canola, coconut, or olive. The soft nondairy spread has the richness and flavor of butter and works well for lactose-free and seed oil-free diets. In most cases and with most brands, this butter can be used in recipes just like the real deal.

 

Then there’s seed oil-free butter, which often has a more pronounced and authentic buttery taste and tends to be richer in beneficial saturated fats. Which brings us to what are seed oils and why all the talk of them recently?

 

In brief…I could go on and on forever but I won’t’…seed oils are those extracted from various seeds like soybean, corn, safflower, and sunflower. They are often used in food processing due to their low cost and high smoke point but they are high in omega-6 fatty acid content. The refining process of them is known to also undergo the use of chemicals and high heat, resulting in compounds like trans fats and free radicals.

 

 

There are also many other variations of butter, including:

 

Unsalted, which is often called “sweet butter.” This version has no added sodium, which gives cooks and bakers more control over the amount of salt in recipes. It is best for baked goods, pan sauces, and pastas.

 

Salted butter on the other hand, does indeed contain sodium, which not only adds that flavor to what you’re making and it also extends is shelf life. It is best for serving with bread, pancakes, bakes potatoes, or on top of a dish.

 

 

Uncultured or “sweet cream butter” is often referred to as “American butter,” as it’s our most predominant. It’s made from pasteurized fresh sweet cream that hasn’t been cultured and has a mild, creamy flavor. Its mellow flavor makes it great for general use and it’s great for baked goods and recipes where butter’s main function is to enhance in the likes of cakes, muffins, cookies, sauces, and casseroles. Because it also typically has a lower butterfat content compared to cultured butter, it’s great for sauteing, frying, and glazing.

 

 

Cultured butter is sometimes called “European butter and is made with pasteurized fresh sweet cream and treated with live cultures like those in yogurt and cheese. It’s then fermented before it’s churned, resulting in an extra-creamy butter with a pleasant tang. This process produces a deeper flavor, making it ideal for recipes that want it to enhance the dish like mased potatoes, biscuits, pound cake, or atop a steak. It’s also higher in butterfat than sweet cream butter, making it great for flaky pastries and creamy sauces.

 

Irish butter is probably the most famous and popular of cultured European butters. It’s slightly higher in fat and can tend to be more pricey. Its deep yellow color is because its milk comes from grass-fed cows who graze on grass that is rich in beta-carotene. In fact, all butter sourced from grass-fed cows will be more yellow in color. It’s known to have a spreadable texture and rich flavor and is best for spreading, as a condiment, or meal topping. It’s low water content also tends to produce baked goods with flakier textures like biscuits or pastries. It’s not always best for baking though if it’s not a major player in the recipe, say like in chocolate chip cookies and cakes. It’s higher cost also means you might be better off using a lower cost butter if you’re making a big batch of brownies or cookies. Your call there.

 

Let’s talk a little about Irish butter, widely considered among the world’s favorite and best kinds. I’m sure you’ve all seen the famous Kerrygold, which is the second top-selling butter after Land O’Lakes and Ireland’s top food export, but what is it that makes it the gold standard of butters besides its iconic golden hue?

 

One difference between American and Europe is that European butter, including that from Ireland, has a higher butterfat content, which means better taste. Irish butter also contains more salt, which not only adds flavor but also acts like a preservative. If you like to store our butter on the counter, you might want to consider Irish butter.

 

When you think about it, Ireland’s topography is perfect for dairy farming. It has abundant rainfall, the temperature rarely gets below freezing or extremely hot, and the country’s famous cliffs protect the farmland from cold and wind. They say Irish cows are happy cows and there’s also something to be said about the fact that Irish farmers take pride in what they do and don’t do, including adding chemical additives and hormones to their products. In the U.S. and many parts of Europe, the opposite is true as the dairy industry has become increasingly industrialized with dairy cows often kept indoors and in overcrowded pastures.

 

 

Then there’s margarine. Butter’s often maligned cousin. It does however, have its own health benefits and is not a true form of butter. Yes, both are yellow and their sticks and tubs look alike, but that’s where their similarities end. They are made of different ingredients and provide different health benefits.

 

Margarine is made from vegetable oils, not heavy cream like butter, which has higher levels of saturated fat. Margarine’s vegetable oils contain unsaturated fats, which are split into polyunsaturated and monounsaturated fats, which when used as a replacement for saturated fat, help lower LDL cholesterol, the “bad” cholesterol that clogs arteries.

 

Margarine’s unsaturated fats are considered “good” because they can help improve blood cholesterol levels, ease inflammation, stabilize heart rhythm, and lower heart disease chances. But, because unsaturated fats are liquid at room temperature, margarine isn’t good for baking.

 

Here’s another way to compare the two:

A serving of stick margarine contains around 2 grams of saturated fat and 3 grams of trans fat. A serving of margarine from a tub contains 3 grams of saturated fat and no trans-fat. In comparison, a serving stick of butter contains around 7 grams of saturated fat and no trans fat while a serving of butter from a tub contains around 4 grams of saturated fat and no trans-fat. I find it amazing and surprising that many health experts say that spreads sold in tubs are a bit healthier than either butter or margarine sticks.

 

 

And what about bulletproof coffee, the caloric coffee version with added fat that is supposed to make you feel energized and full for longer? The drink is also known as butter coffee, and as you correctly assume, it is made with butter. First promoted by American entrepreneur Dave Asprey, bulletproof coffee caused quite a craze among those who follow a low carb, high fat diet or any trending food craze. It still needs to be determined whether bulletproof coffee can improve your health or make you feel energized

 

 

 

Lastly, in a pinch when cooking with butter and it needs to be softened? Here are some suggested ways to do so if the typical 30 minutes at room temperature needs to be sped up as well as a handy-dandy measuring guide:

 

Microwave a whole stick, wrapper and all, at high in 10-second intervals, rotating it 90 degrees after each 10 seconds. Rotating is key!

 

If you have some time to soften it at room temp, some say to cut up the butter, as cutting a stick into smaller chunks will soften if more rapidly

 

A way to test whether a stick of butter is softened enough but not too much is to gently press the top of the stick with your finger. If the indentation remains but the stick holds its shape, it’s perfectly softened. If you can hardly make an indentation, it’s not softened enough while if pressing your finger makes a finger mark not just a fingertip mark, it’s too soft.

 

Clever Uses for Butter

Prevent sticky fingers. While baking, slather a thin layer of butter all over your hands before mixing batter.

 

Get Rid of Smell on Hands. After handling anything stinky like fish, onion, or garlic, massage your hands with a dab of butter and scrub them clean with water and soap.

 

Slip off a ring. Use a bit of butter to loosen a tight ring stuck on your finger.

 

Swallow pills. If you have a hard time making the medicine go down, rub pills with a light coating of butter before swallowing them with water.

 

Dislodge gum from hair. Massage butter into the gum and then slide it easily out.

 

Stop Door Creaks. Grease the hinges on your door with butter rather than a pungent, toxic product.

 

Treat Skin Irritations: Always check with your doctor first, but many believe the protein in butter and its overall texture make it an effective way to treat minor scars and burns.

 

Disclaimer: As I mentioned previously, I’m merely reporting and writing what I’ve researched but am not a physician or even health expert per se, so please consult your doctor regarding any use of butter or margarine.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Just Breathe September 28, 2025

Filed under: Uncategorized — carlawordsmithblog @ 9:32 pm

I was reading one of James Clear’s recent “3 Ideas, 2 Quotes, and 1 Question” emails and one of the ideas hit me. You could say it took my breath away.

One of Clear’s ideas was to give yourself an instant gift: just breathe. He suggested you close your eyes for 60 seconds…right now…and just breathe. Try it. I’ll wait…

It’s crazy how just stopping and breathing can give you strength and give you relief. Don’t just take it from me, take it from science.

It’s true, breathwork is a science-backed route to relief from multiple modern ailments. The science of breathing and how embracing the art of breathwork can bring you the peace and calm you crave, even in the most hectic of moments.

I kinda know this for a fact and it’s all because of one little bracelet. When my mom recently passed away, I got a package in the mail from a special friend of mine. In it was one of those beaded bracelets with a word on it (ala Swifties). I couldn’t see the word right away but was expecting something along the lines of “comfort” or “strength” but when I read it, it had the word “breathe” on it. I teared up and thought “what a perfect word!” It’s a simple bracelet that’s much more special to me than any designer piece.

But I digress…

So, what exactly is “breathwork?” Breathwork refers to breathing techniques that intentionally channel and focus on the breath. For thousands of years, various Eastern medicine practices have employed breathing techniques to calm the body and the mind and the breath of God is mentioned many times throughout the Bible in both the Old Testament and New Testament referring to everything from creation to the Holy Spirit.

Think about it; breathing and breathing right is often the key to childbirth, yoga, Pilates, sleep therapy, exercise, and stress relief. Evidence is clear that if you’re feeling anxious, angry, frustrated, worried, or disappointed, relief can come just by taking a few slow, deep breaths.

We all know that breathing sustains life and that it’s one of our body’s natural acts, but do we know that intentional breathing is a powerful tool for enhancing physical, mental, and emotional well-being? In short, proper breathwork techniques can improve lung capacity and heart health, increase oxygen intake, and can also boost immune function, lower blood pressure, enhance endurance, help manage overwhelming emotions, and even aid in pain management as it promotes the release of natural endorphins.

All of this is of course great, but what’s equally great is that breathing doesn’t require any costly or fancy equipment or classes. All one needs to do is take a big belly breath! Doing so can actually help you calm down and maybe even make you feel better. James Nestor, author of “Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art,” told “Good Housekeeping” that “The way you breathe affects anxiety and anxiety affects how you breathe.” Makes perfect sense, right?

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It’s all well and good that western science has now embraced this lost art, proving that perhaps yogis were right all along. My beloved yoga instructor is always reminding class to take a big breath in and a big breath out, often using the “in through the nose out through the mouth” method and it usually is followed by a sense of calm and centering.

Come to find out proper breathing can also lower heart rates and help in digestion. Research also show that slowing down your breathing changes the neurological signals you’re sending to your brain, which influence emotions, thoughts, and behaviors.

“Good Housekeeping” points out that all of this can come in handy when dealing with some of the gloom and doom that we are currently inundated with. A most tragic of “last breaths” hit us full force a few weeks ago, causing anxiety and worry, but by merely breathing (and not watching so much news and social media!) we can dial it all down. In fact, certain intentional controlled breathing techniques do the opposite of what adrenaline does…they slow the heart rate down. The practice can also lead to gratitude, as it’s been said that a mere 45 seconds of deep breathing can enhance your appreciation of your surroundings.

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One of the more popular intentional breathing techniques is called “Box Breathing.” In short, this 4-4-4-4 breathing has you breathe in through your nose for a count of four, hold your breath for a count of four, exhale for a count of four, and remain empty of breath for a count of four. Repeat until you feel centered. As with anything, always do so with care if you have health problems and consult your physician. In the meantime, just breathe!

Benefits of Deep Breathing

Deep breathing can provide numerous benefits in various situations. Here are some key examples:

 

STRESS MANAGEMENT

Calms the Nervous System: Deep breathing activates the parasympathetic nervous system, promoting relaxation and reducing stress hormones.

Reduces Anxiety: It helps manage anxiety by slowing down the heart rate and lowering blood pressure.

PHYSICAL HEALTH

Improves Lung Function: Deep breathing enhances lung capacity and efficiency, allowing for better oxygen exchange.

Boosts Immune System: It can strengthen the immune response by increasing oxygen levels in the blood.

MENTAL CLARITY

Enhances Focus: Taking deep breaths can improve concentration and mental clarity, making it easier to tackle tasks.

Promotes Calmness: It helps shift the mind from a state of panic or agitation to one of calm and focus.

SLEEP IMPROVEMENT

Facilitates Relaxation: Practicing deep breathing before bed can help ease the transition into sleep, promoting better rest.

Reduces Insomnia Symptoms: It can be a useful tool for those struggling with insomnia, helping to calm the mind and body.

PAIN MANAGEMENT

Alleviates Discomfort: Deep breathing can help manage pain by promoting relaxation and reducing tension in the body.

Triggers Endorphin Release: It encourages the release of endorphins, which can enhance feelings of well-being.

PHYSICAL ACTIVITY

Enhances Performance: Deep breathing techniques can improve endurance and performance during physical activities by maximizing oxygen intake.

Supports Recovery: It aids in recovery post-exercise by promoting relaxation and reducing muscle tension.

Other Natural Stress Reducers

Breathwork is just one way to find your Zen. Here are some additional ways to do so naturally:

Take a hike. Actually, just a walk will do, as research shows even a 10-minute walk has benefits and can actually lower anxiety.

Get out. Exposure to nature and being outside has been linked to improved attention span, lower stress levels, and better mood.

Be thankful. As mentioned with breathwork, which can increase thankfulness, the opposite holds true in that practicing gratitude can help relieve stress and anxiety by putting things in perspective.

Stretch it out. Loosen up those muscles and relieve some of those aches and pains. Doing so for just 10 minutes a day has shown to help people feel less anxious.

Be crafty. As in arts and crafts. Studies show that drawing, pottery making, knitting, cross-stitching, puzzles, and other similar activities can significantly reduce anxiety. Perhaps the best part? You don’t even have to be good at them!

Pet a pet. As I’ve written again and again, simply petting a dog improves mood and relieves stress all while lowering cortisol levels. They’re not called “man’s best friend” for nothing.

Be a bird brain. It may sound crazy, but recent research shows that hearing or even seeing birds can make people feel calmer.

Tune out. It goes without saying to tune out of news cycles some, but also tune the tunes up. Music makes people often feel good and if you decide to dance to that music, symptoms of depression may decrease and feelings of well-being may increase.

Just say no. Sometimes saying “no” to something feels a whole lot better than always saying “yes.” I’m big on asking myself “What will you regret more: saying yes or saying no?” It’s ok to not have a calendar full of commitments and to allow yourself some you time to recharge and regroup.

Sniff away. Grab you some fresh lavender and sniff away as numerous studies show the calming power of lavender. Use lavender oil in a diffuser or put a few drops on a towel and just breathe it all in.

 

 

 

God’s Influencer Now a Saint September 7, 2025

Filed under: Uncategorized — carlawordsmithblog @ 2:49 pm

A few months ago, some friends and I went to see the movie “Roadmap to Reality,” a great film about Carlo Acutis, the first millennial Catholic saint. I’m fascinated and inspired by the young man who was an ordinary teenager and yet became the perfect role model for today’s generation. In fact, he is often called “God’s Influencer” and in today’s world of even the youngest of kids living on tablets and phones, his story is one everyone should learn about.

 

 

 

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Proof that holiness and high-speed internet can peacefully coexist came to fruition today when Acutis was officially canonized by Pope Leo before thousands in Rome’s St. Peter’s Square. For all you non-Catholics out there, canonization is the official last step to sainthood. It follows his beatification by Pope Francis in 2020 when huge crowds watched the ceremony on giant LED screens that he would have loved to configure. Today’s ceremony comes a little more than a month after more than a million young people filled Rome for the 2025 Jubilee of Youth and is a heavenly sent date for the first influencer saint.

 

 

Acutis was born in London but his family soon moved to Italy and he was raised in Milan. He loved soccer and wore his favorite Nikes everywhere but was diagnosed with leukemia and died at age 15 in October of 2005. But, in his short life, he influenced many and his “digital evangelization” changed hearts and minds worldwide. He is buried in Assisi, home of one of his favorite saints and mine, St. Francis, and is appropriately dressed in his beloved sneakers, a sports jersey, and jeans. This “Saint in Sneakers” was influenced by many including, appropriately, former Apple CEO Steve Jobs, whose wisdom struck a chord with young Carlo when he said, “Your time is limited so don’t waste it living the life of someone else.”

 

 

For Acutis, information and technology should be seen as tools to share good news, to connect, and to do good. His goal was for us to use technology to lead toward truth and hope and to promote faith rather than undermine it all while not being controlled or manipulated by it. As the “Catholic Star Herald” wrote, Carlo also knew that a deep spirituality on the inside is the secret to a serene, consistent, and joyful disposition on the outside. He exemplified the inner beauty we all strive for and was a great person of holiness inside and out as he helped beggars, the disabled, immigrants, and the elderly.

 

 

“Why do people worry so much about their physical beauty but not about the beauty of their souls?” he often asked. As today’s teens, particularly females, struggle with online comparison and bullying, this question is not only timely but pure wisdom. “Happiness is looking towards God and sadness is looking towards yourself” he said as well as “Money is only ragged paper. What counts in life is the nobility of the soul and the way one loves God and loves one’s neighbor.” This vision from a saint that encourages young people not to settle for something beneath their dignity is truly a perfect example of someone who was wise beyond his years and who used modern technology for a good effect without wasting time or being distracted.

 

 

Other than his adeptness with technology and putting faith at our fingertips, Acutis also had a deep love for the Eucharist. When he noticed that Google featured more gossip than Gospel, he created a slick website that mapped Eucharistic miracles and Marian apparitions into one easy-to-use searchable site. Today that home-grown project has become a multilingual portal used by catechists, youth ministers, and others on every continent. At a time when many of his contemporaries were walking away from Mass, Acutis had the ultimate respect for the Body of Christ saying, “The Eucharist is my motorway to heaven.”

 

Ceremonies for Acutis’ official canonization haven’t been met without delay. His beatification ceremony was postponed due to the 2020 pandemic and his canonization was delayed for the papal funeral of Pope Francis. As with anything that’s meant to be however, it’s all come to be.

 

Today also marks the opening of the animated film, “Carlo Acutis: God’s Influencer,” which offers children and family to learn about his life and evangelization.

 

 

Acutis is the example young people need today and his canonization coincidentally comes at a time when young Americans are entering the Catholic Church in great numbers, an example being the more than 400 currently preparing to enter the Catholic Church at Texas A&M University’s St. Mary’s Center. It indeed appears that the Church is entering a period of renewed growth with more Americans joining the Catholic Church than leaving it for the first time in decades. Just as Acutis is considered a “cool” saint, Catholicism has become cool. Maybe it’s our new American Pope, maybe it’s an awakening, maybe it’s all divine intervention.

 

This “sacred surge” in the numbers of aspiring Catholics registering to join the church is led by a growing number of young adults, particularly those in their teens and 20s, who are defying decades of declining religious affiliation. It seems Gen Z and Millennials are seeking purpose, authenticity, meaning, normalcy, and tradition in an increasingly chaotic and confusing world. Driven by the pandemic, the highs and lows of the internet, and lax and questionable alternatives being offered, today’s younger generation is simply finding something beautiful and transcendent about the rituals and ancient history in Catholicism, its doctrines, and the mass.

 

 

According to the National Catholic Register, some dioceses are reporting increases of 30-70 percent in new converts and much of it is being driven by young men, who are now statistically more religious than young women. C’mon ladies! And America is not alone. The Catholic boom is also happening in France, which saw a 45 percent increase in the number of adult baptisms this year. In England, a surge in Mass attendance is resulting in Catholics outnumbering Anglicans for the first time since the Church of England was born while Austria is reporting an 85 percent increase in adult baptisms. The same is happening in Canada, Belgium, and Sweden.

 

 

All of this would be music to Carlo Acutis’ ears and would undoubtedly make him smile. Maybe today, and every day, take a minute to put faith at your fingertips as you scroll and post.

 

 

 

 

Also being beatified today is Peir Giorgio Frassati who, like Acutis, was an Italian young man who has been a global patron for young adults, athletes, and “ordinary people.” Frassati saw many parallels between Catholic life and his favorite sport, mountain-climbing. It was in nature that he connected most deeply with God and his simple quote, “Verson L’Alto,” which means “to the heights,” encapsulates his philosophy of mountaineering and his Catholic outlook on life and adventure. Frassati died in 1925 at the age of 24 but like him, we are called to go “to the heights” to encounter Christ and love in all things.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Back to School…with Fido? September 5, 2025

Filed under: Uncategorized — carlawordsmithblog @ 8:17 pm

We’ve all heard about them and many of us have actually been around one: an Emotional Support Animal, or ESA. We’ve likely read how they can be very beneficial but we’ve also read about the abuse of the privilege and outrageous requests to board planes or enter restaurants with the most outrageous of animals. Here’s a new one though: college students using ESAs to get accustomed to their new higher learning world.

 

 

Courtesy Chris Boland

Back to school is in full force right now and universities are filling dorms, apartments, and Greek houses with freshman and upper classmen. Leaving home and entering the new world of college life can be fun and exciting yet daunting and overwhelming. The college experience can be a whirlwind of challenges, personal growth, and forging friendships. Friend groups and campus organizations are helpful in getting settled at college, but a new entity has entered the chat room: ESAs.

 

 

It’s been documented again and again that our furry four-legged friends and family members go way beyond canine cuteness as they also provide comfort and companionship so why not allow them at college campuses? That, my friends, is the million-dollar question.

 

Yes ESAs, particularly dogs, provide so many benefits but those benefits might not gel with your new room, suite, hall, or classmates. Before even thinking about it, a student should consult with a mental-health professional such as a licensed therapist or psychiatrist who can assess the student’s emotional needs and determine whether an ESA is appropriate. After that, the next thing is to research your university’s housing policies. Keep in mind that ESAs are not covered under the Americans with Disabilities Act.

 

 

Something else to know is that ESAs aren’t the same as service or therapy animals. In general, service animals are trained to perform specific tasks for individuals with disabilities while therapy animals are trained to provide comfort in therapeutic settings. ESAs on the other hand, offer companionship and emotional support to individuals with mental health conditions or emotional challenges.

 

 

Anyone who knows me knows I’m a dog lover. I’ve owned them all my life and have worked with organizations that provide both service and therapy dogs. Two that stand out include the Austin Dog Alliance’s “Hounds for Heroes” program that trains and provides dogs for our nation’s wounded veteran heroes. I’ve also worked with the program in which autistic students gather for a small group learning activity, many of who exhibit anxious and nervous behaviors only to see those behaviors diminish simply by us volunteers walking in and having a dog sit next to them to pet.

 

College life can be lonely and stressful and many have found that interacting with an ESA can similarly help reduce stress levels and promote relaxation. In fact, spending time with a pet has been shown to lower cortisol and norepinephrine levels and increase oxytocin, a hormone associated with bonding and well-being.

 

College life can also feel isolating for students living away from home for the first time and ESAs can alleviate feelings of loneliness and seclusion. They can also act as social catalysts, bringing students together in shared spaces such as puppy playdates or dog parks. I’ve always said dog parks are some of the happiest places on earth…they’re happy place and our happy place…and what better place than a college campus for one?

 

 

They can also improve mood and overall emotional health by offering unconditional love, non-judgmental affection, and endless comfort. There’s nothing like puppy dog eyes gazing up at your if you’re sad or anxious. It’s not just emotional, it’s science!

 

That science also supports the idea that spending time with animals enhances and improves concentration and focus, which are especially beneficial during study sessions. The calming effect of dogs while studying can help students maintain a higher level of attention and hopefully absorption and learning.

 

 

If you sleep with your ESA dog in your bedroom or on your bed, studies also show you’ll sleep more soundly. The above famous “Dog on Bed” painting by Andrew Wyeth hangs above our bed and I must admit, it mimics our life! Researchers at the Mayo Clinic’s Arizona campus revealed that sleeping with animals in the bedroom actually helped participants achieve better quality sleep. Having your dog cuddle next to you is a very comforting feeling and the study showed that whether you sleep with a poodle or a Great Dane, you’ll sleep better. The old saying “let sleeping dogs lie” might just mean lie in your bed!

 

 

Lastly, having a dog ESA probably means you have to walk that dog, which means you’re getting exercise you might not otherwise if you didn’t have one. I don’t think I need to go into the physical, mental, and emotional benefits of physical activity.

 

 

According to the American Veterinary Association, more than 40 million American households have dogs. Now you can maybe add dorm rooms to that number. And while dogs and cats are the obvious ESA darlings, other animals like rabbits, birds, and reptiles can also provide companionship. And as adorable as the above puppy and kitten are, they probably aren’t the ideal choices for an ESA. Experts recommend a pet you aleady own and one that’s somewaht trained.

 

I’m a solid dog only vote here but even being the dog lover that I am, I personally can’t fathom having a dog when I was in college. Doing so is a huge commitment and spontaneity is not in the cards. Class and social schedules must jive with feeding and “taking out” schedules of Fido and to me that adds stress, not comfort! Anyone choosing to go that route needs to make sure they’re up for the responsibility and the ESA is up for college life. Still, if even one animal can provide security and strength for their one owner and not negatively impact anyone, I’m all for it. Think of yours as your own personal team mascot!